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Downsizing, To Move or Not to Move? That is the Question

Posted by Rosemary, Volunteer Mentor @rosemarya, Apr 12, 2020

At some point as we age, we will have to make a decision about leaving our homes and downsizing. Maybe in our own town or to another town. Maybe to smaller home, condo, apartment, or assisted living/senior community.

When the time comes to downsize, seniors can struggle with a multitude of emotional, physical, and financial challenges.

How do you make an informed decision about when to downsize?
What tips do you have to share?

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beckboop13 | @beckboop13 | 1 day ago
In reply to @edsutton "You might also consider the simple life joys you want to maintain as long as possible...." + (show)
@edsutton

You might also consider the simple life joys you want to maintain as long as possible.
Are there things in your neighborhood that are easy to enjoy that give you a big payoff for little effort or cost?

For example, there is a state park adjacent to our neighborhood. We don't need to drive to enjoy a daily walk in the woods. And there won't be more housing developments nearby. That is a big plus for staying where we are.

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Yes, there are many things nearby that we would not have if we moved. Walking paths,, Biking paths, Heated Olympic pools,restaurants,movies,gyms, all Within 5-10
Minutes away by walking, car or golf cart or biking.
Plus warm weather.

We would be trading this to be building on to our son and Daughter-in-law‘s home. A car ride is necessary to get everywhere and it is cold.

Am I crazy?

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edsutton | @edsutton | 5 hours ago

If your cognitive difficulties progress to the degree that you need to be in memory care, your son can arrange for a place near to him if that is the best solution.
If you prefer to stay where you are as long as possible, now is the time to make your current situation as manageable as possible.
Can you find a certified senior advisor to help you make plans, and perhaps include your son in the conversation?
Here is a person we met with in Durham NC. Some of the links on her site may help you find someone near you. < https://agingfamilysolutions.com/meet-the-founder&gt;

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gravity3 | @gravity3 | 4 hours ago
In reply to @edsutton "If your cognitive difficulties progress to the degree that you need to be in memory care,..." + (show)
@edsutton

If your cognitive difficulties progress to the degree that you need to be in memory care, your son can arrange for a place near to him if that is the best solution.
If you prefer to stay where you are as long as possible, now is the time to make your current situation as manageable as possible.
Can you find a certified senior advisor to help you make plans, and perhaps include your son in the conversation?
Here is a person we met with in Durham NC. Some of the links on her site may help you find someone near you. < https://agingfamilysolutions.com/meet-the-founder&gt;

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Thanks for this information Ed. However the link didn't work for me. Can you check it.

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hopenr | @hopenr | 4 hours ago

I wonder about this a lot. I live in a three story townhome with no bathroom on the main floor and I wonder how long I am going to be able to climb stairs all day. Or if I want to. And I need half the space I currently have. The issue for me is finances. All my equity is in the home. I could use direction and information.

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Sue, Volunteer Mentor | @sueinmn | 2 hours ago
In reply to @gravity3 "Thanks for this information Ed. However the link didn't work for me. Can you check it." + (show)
@gravity3

Thanks for this information Ed. However the link didn't work for me. Can you check it.

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Oops, Ed's like had a couple of extra characters.
This one works:
https://agingfamilysolutions.com/meet-the-founder

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Sue, Volunteer Mentor | @sueinmn | 2 hours ago
In reply to @hopenr "I wonder about this a lot. I live in a three story townhome with no bathroom..." + (show)
@hopenr

I wonder about this a lot. I live in a three story townhome with no bathroom on the main floor and I wonder how long I am going to be able to climb stairs all day. Or if I want to. And I need half the space I currently have. The issue for me is finances. All my equity is in the home. I could use direction and information.

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It might be helpful to contact an eldercare professional, Ed's link might give you a start:
https://agingfamilysolutions.com/meet-the-founder
Also, contact your state or county. For example, Minnesota has resources to get you started through their Senior Linkage Line:
https://mn.gov/senior-linkage-line/
Google for "senior services [your location]" to find resources in your state or county.

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