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2 things, plugging toilet and sitting in bathroom for way too long.

Posted by geppetto @geppetto, Aug 26 6:56am

It appears my wife is now overestimating what she needs for toilet paper (#1) and ends up plugging toilet. And, when she does go to the toilet (#1) she can spend way too much time in there. Looking for recommendations on how to address these new issues. She has Alzheimer's, Parkinson syndrome and luey body.

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shmerdloff | @shmerdloff | Aug 27 3:21pm

Take the Rim Warning very seriously

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Mickey5455 | @mickey5455 | Aug 27 5:09pm

We do all have our challenges. I’m not sure I have it in me to teach an old dog new tricks. The aerosols are really something I never thought of. For me sitting on a wet seat is more than I want to deal with. I think i’m going to try making it a habit to wipe the seat before I sit. I also deal with loose bowels and he tries to clean up but there is always residue under the seat and in the bowl that he misses. From what I read, a lot of you are dealing with much worse problems than I have and I’m thankful I can deal with where we are. I’m hoping it doesn’t get worse. Thanks to all of you for the support and suggestions.

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louiselex | @louiselex | Aug 27 5:10pm
In reply to @deme17z "@mickey5455 My husband has big time incontinence! Sometimes I have to deal with half of urine..." + (show)
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@mickey5455
My husband has big time incontinence!
Sometimes I have to deal with half of urine in toilet and half on floor. He flushes but doesn’t clean up the floor! Has mild dementia so I just clean up after him.

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141942 | @141942 | Aug 27 8:53pm

Wow! I'm seeing the same thing with my wife. Didn't realize any of this. Although the huge amount of toilet paper and toilet stopping up is standard here. Thanks!

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geppetto | @geppetto | Aug 28 6:08am
In reply to @kjc48 "@bclane this is an interesting share. Toilet clogged, run a bucket of hote water a gallon..." + (show)
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@bclane this is an interesting share. Toilet clogged, run a bucket of hote water a gallon or so (as long as it's not up to rim), FLUSH, and it will push everything through? ALong with a potential second try. ANd a bunch of liquid soap, even better to clean the stopped up toilet. Our work is never done!

I'm going to try this. Best Karla

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@kjc48 I don't see the flooding until I go in the johnny room to get her out as she is just sitting there with wet feet. It has been clear water which tells me she is plugging it with TP and not #2.

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geppetto | @geppetto | Aug 28 6:11am
In reply to @kjc48 "@bclane this is an interesting share. Toilet clogged, run a bucket of hote water a gallon..." + (show)
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@bclane this is an interesting share. Toilet clogged, run a bucket of hote water a gallon or so (as long as it's not up to rim), FLUSH, and it will push everything through? ALong with a potential second try. ANd a bunch of liquid soap, even better to clean the stopped up toilet. Our work is never done!

I'm going to try this. Best Karla

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@kjc48 I don't see the flooding until I go in there to check on her. As the flooding is all clear, my assumption is she is using too much TP and is not related to #2. A plunger clears it out.

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carolreid | @carolreid | Aug 28 7:42am
In reply to @gloaming "@trav77 My parents taught us three boys to sit to pee. My father was an engineer..." + (show)
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@trav77 My parents taught us three boys to sit to pee. My father was an engineer and a thoughtful man who knew that peeing into a toilet from standing invites both aerosols and droplets of toilet contents which can arc several tens of cm up and out of the toilet, onto the seat, the floor, and onto the wall adjacent to the toilet. Also, the flushing mechanics cause the same thing....believe it or not, and if you have a toothbrush nearby.................................................... So, we boys were firmly invited to sit when doing our business, and then to close the lid before flushing. These two things greatly reduce the....uhhhhh.........migration.........yeah, migration....of unsavory particles and droplets over to surfaces where they can damage paint, make floors stink, and infect surfaces of things you'd rather not touch if you were savvy about it all.

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@gloaming Bless your parents! I am currently unsuccessfully chasing the smell of pee by scrubbing over, under and around everything. Dear husband can't imagine having to sit down.

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marilynt | @marilynt | Aug 29 8:33am

@geppetto My heart goes out to you dealing with so many medical issues with your wife. You truly love and care for her.

I agree with the comment to have it checked out with her Physician. Because the toilet paper issue doesn’t seem to be a problem when she moves her bowels, she may have an UTI. A squeezable bottle with warm water may give her relief.
Wishing you the best!

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carolreid | @carolreid | Aug 29 11:53am
In reply to @geppetto "@kjc48 I don't see the flooding until I go in the johnny room to get her..." + (show)
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@kjc48 I don't see the flooding until I go in the johnny room to get her out as she is just sitting there with wet feet. It has been clear water which tells me she is plugging it with TP and not #2.

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@geppetto I recently discovered that I can prevent the run-over by adjusting the height in the tank that the water fills to. I looked it up on Google. Has that ever saved me some stress!

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shmerdloff | @shmerdloff | Aug 29 12:38pm
In reply to @carolreid "@geppetto I recently discovered that I can prevent the run-over by adjusting the height in the..." + (show)
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@geppetto I recently discovered that I can prevent the run-over by adjusting the height in the tank that the water fills to. I looked it up on Google. Has that ever saved me some stress!

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@carolreid
Yes. Take the rim seriously

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