Does anyone feel old and useless with age?

@grandmira
Hello Grandmira,
I am 81 and have come to an understanding with myself that whatever physical limitations I have or will have in the future, will not affect my mental awareness of my life experiences to date. One can always help others with kindness, patience and acceptance in all interactions, especially with those unlike ourselves.
Getting "the hell out of bed" is our main determination to keep on keeping on. Thanks for your writing" It reminds me that life is a process and regardless the time anyone spends on this earth one can always contribute goodness toward others. See you in the woodlot...
Jofree

Hello Sally 12345,
At times it is true during self introspection that one may feel "useless" as you say; this is a realization for us all however it should not define our contributions we have made: For ourselves or with others along our journey. I'm 81 and have hopefully shed my last tear over my inabilities: Throughout my lifetime I contributed my best to our country, served another country throughout the 80's and during my sojourns in and out of all those experiences, my physical abilities were a blessing. Now I have poor ambulation but can ramble around quickly if I need to and my strength and daily fortitude are thriving with renewed anticipation. We get what we give: My wonderful Gal of 35 years together supports any effort I put forth, kicks me in the pants when I slide down that slope of self pity and encourages me back into the stream of life.
Your writing shares a bit of yourself and your efforts along your journey and I am fairly certain that, like all of us, have done some good and done some bad. All that is behind us now and each and every day we have renewed opportunities to contribute all along the way. And, your writing also has reaffirmed my dedication to on giving to others anytime and anything that we are able to share. Thank you for helping me to realize that each morning we awake, we have another day to offer ourselves to others in kindness and understanding and acceptance.
Hang in their and count your blessings. Jo free

@jofree I like your reply. At 80 we realize we are mortal. I made it to 80 without any serious health problems, now at 85 I have them, but I am still very independent. I had an interesting life. I see the challenges that the young face in the future and I wish I could leave them a better world.

@vic83 that is a very sweet response. I pray the world is better for my kids and grandkids, too.