Does anyone feel old and useless with age?

I was laying in bed this morning at 6:00 am and thinking is this what old age feels like, back ache, shoulder ache, kink in my neck etc., I thought get the hell out of bed and get ready to go to the woodlot, cutting and gathering with my son. I know I will be as tired when I get back but spending the day with my son in the quiet of the wood is terrific. I might not be as physically able as I was, but I still can help, even when I can’t do that just being there and giving advice etc is fulfilling in of itself. My point is we all have something to give even if it’s years of experience that those who can appreciate it, will.

Hello Sally 12345,
At times it is true during self introspection that one may feel "useless" as you say; this is a realization for us all however it should not define our contributions we have made: For ourselves or with others along our journey. I'm 81 and have hopefully shed my last tear over my inabilities: Throughout my lifetime I contributed my best to our country, served another country throughout the 80's and during my sojourns in and out of all those experiences, my physical abilities were a blessing. Now I have poor ambulation but can ramble around quickly if I need to and my strength and daily fortitude are thriving with renewed anticipation. We get what we give: My wonderful Gal of 35 years together supports any effort I put forth, kicks me in the pants when I slide down that slope of self pity and encourages me back into the stream of life.
Your writing shares a bit of yourself and your efforts along your journey and I am fairly certain that, like all of us, have done some good and done some bad. All that is behind us now and each and every day we have renewed opportunities to contribute all along the way. And, your writing also has reaffirmed my dedication to on giving to others anytime and anything that we are able to share. Thank you for helping me to realize that each morning we awake, we have another day to offer ourselves to others in kindness and understanding and acceptance.
Hang in their and count your blessings. Jo free

@jofree I like your reply. At 80 we realize we are mortal. I made it to 80 without any serious health problems, now at 85 I have them, but I am still very independent. I had an interesting life. I see the challenges that the young face in the future and I wish I could leave them a better world.

I'm 73 and feel the same way. My kids and grandkids don't want me around. No friends no family around they live in a different city. I'm always alone. I'm married but it's like being alone.

Congratulations on reaching the age you’ve attained. As for useless? Far from it. You have life knowledge and teachable skills to pass down to future generations. Life is like being a butterfly. You become a different version of yourself with each transformation. Age and wisdom are two things you can’t attain without spending time in all the seasons of life.

@amalfi1279 Loneliness even when in relationship can be crippling emotionally. Not sure if you are involved with a church but there is always a need there, food banks, children services that have adults read to kids etc . What I’m saying is that we sometimes have to extend ourselves beyond the immediate family. If you have something to offer, there will always be a place that will welcome you.

@amalfi1279 Loneliness even when in relationship can be crippling emotionally. Not sure if you are involved with a church but there is always a need there, food banks, children services that have adults read to kids etc . What I’m saying is that we sometimes have to extend ourselves beyond the immediate family. If you have something to offer, there will always be a place that will welcome you.