~ Whining again: Mistake when I moved here ~

Posted by .harp player @amberpep, May 18, 2019

I’m sorry I’m whining again, so I’ll apologize right out. No one seems to answer so I think this venting is just more for me. I hate this place ….. I am so sorry I moved to VA. I should have stayed in MD where I was happy, had my own condo, and pleasant environment and people around me ….. here, nothing at all like it. I made a big mistake when I moved here. I hate the thought of living here for the duration.
abby

@amberpep

I've been to the "Transitions" group twice now, and I can already tell that, even though nothing has changed for me around here, it is definitely going to help me see things in a more positive way and learn to appreciate my new home turf. After all, I am right at the bottom of the Blue Ridge Mountains, and I know a lot of folks would love that. I do to, sort of, but I trust that this Transitions group is really going to help me learn to have a different way of looking at things. I thank God for that.
I still am debating whether or not to reopen the alimony portion of our divorce. If he had not been so nasty when I asked him for help, just one time, I probably wouldn't be thinking this way. But the way he spoke to me set off all kinds of alarms. I don't want to mess up our family, but at the same time I don't think he should be allowed to get away with that type of attitude toward me. After all, I am the mother of his 3, healthy, well-adjusted kids.
abby

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@amberpep. I’m so happy to hear that the Transitions group is working for you! Yea! And good luck working with your ex

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@amberpep Good news. Hope this group continues to be helpful to you.

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@hopeful33250

Hi @amberpep

The new church start-up as well as the Transitions group sounds just ideal for you. Church and support groups have always helped me to see beyond myself and my disappointments and have helped me put it all in perspective. I hope that it does the same for you.

It sounds like you've set some good boundaries with the time you have set to see "Mr. Wonderful." Good for you. I know it isn't easy.

Here is a new MLK quote for you, I hope you like it: "Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase."

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I really like that quote by MLK Teresa …. I'm going to write that down …. it's a keeper.
abby

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I agree, @amberpep. Glad you liked it too!

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