Rheumatoid arthritis: How do you cope day to day?
I having been seeing a Dr. they first done exray and said I do have it. Went to arthritis Dr and my numbers are not showing. I take methotrexate injections once weekly I also take plaquenal and cymbalta and it seems to be getting worse. One hand and joints hurt more on left side. I am so tired I can’t get going. I wake-up as tired as I went to bed. When I do stuff flower bed and do house work I’m exhausted. But my arm sometimes from elbow down just aches and lots of more stuff. I am anemic and this time she said my platelets are low and few more things were low. Somebody please talk to me. Now she is sending me to Ochsner‘s in Louisiana
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Hi Susan. Good luck with your results and your appointment with the endocrinologist. It is so frustrating and disheartening when the the doctors do not have answers. I hope you get some relief from your pain soon.
It is so difficult when you are on medications that don't relieve pain, which in fact leave you feeling worse. I understand as I have been there. I am still in search of a doctor who can tell me what my diagnosis is !
I have mild hypogammaglogulinemia, but otherwise my bloodwork is normal. I have fibromyalgia, off and on widespread pain to different joints and muscles throughout my body. I developed hypothyroid at 40. Just this past Dec. had a right hemicolectomy. Cancer was found in my caecum. Luckily it was found early after me complaining to doctors for 2 1/2 years. Pet scan clear so no chemo or radiation. So I am very grateful for that. With the way I am feeling I have no doubt that there is something autoimmune going on in my body but I have not been given any answers. My immunologist is monitoring me but I am at a loss as to what to do next. With my ANa and sed. rate and CRP all within normal my PCP has not referred me to a rheumatologist. I'm thinking that is my next step.
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4 Reactions@leanne004 I sympathize with all you're going through. It's a pretty wild ride. In my experience, it does take a rheumatologist, and a good one at that, to diagnose. One doctor, an orthopedic surgeon I was seeing about getting a shoulder replacement, thought I had a ganglion cyst on my wrist. He didn't even notice that my entire hand was swollen like a baseball glove, I later found that's a classic sign of psoriatic arthritis. (I ended up choosing a different surgeon, haha). The rheumatologist recognized it just by looking. It's so good to have a diagnosis and to know what you're dealing with. I do hope you find the answers you need. Kind regards, LL
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1 ReactionHi ladies, thank you for your kind comments. We are all having unique issues and unfortunately we are getting little assistance from the medical field. LL, kudos to your rheumatologist who saw your hand and recognized the cause. I will continue to pray for answers for all of us. 🩷
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7 Reactions@llmartin I can sympathize! I’ve had rheumatoid arthritis for 30 years. Over the last three years, I have developed an erosive osteoarthritis, something that can be diagnosed definitively with a simple hand x-ray . But my previous rheumatologist missed this diagnosis. While under his care, I “failed” on about three RA biologics, because RA meds do not treat erosive osteoarthritis.
I now wonder if the drugs I “failed” on might be brought back into play for my preexisting RA. There are only so many RA drugs out there. And I’ve been at this game 30 years so I’ve run through a few.
Honestly, I think the underlying problem was the guy was not particularly good at listening to his patients. Nose in the labs kind of guy. Mistrustful of what patient say. If I had had more options, I would’ve run.
We so deserve rheumatologists that listen to us carefully and take what we are saying seriously. That is worth 1000 lab results. And, In my experience, these qualities are hard to find.
The good news is my new rheumatologist fits the bill. And, you can bet I’ll hang onto my relationship with her. I feel blessed.
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7 Reactions@sweetundine Wonderful to hear! True, autoimmune diseases cannot be reduced to lab work, and it seems like a lot more research is needed to understand this strange disease. Happy to hear you found a good doctor! Best, LL
@sweetundine I have RA, osteoarthritis and erosive osteoarthritis. My rheumatologist is dismissive and shrugs off the erosive and osteoarthritis because there's no good treatment for those I am allergic to NSAIDs and RA drugs have not helped. I have found that since I started Low Dose Naltrexone, the symptoms of all three are improved.
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3 ReactionsI wad diagnosed with RA 25 years ago. The first few years were really difficult. I tried multiple drugs until I found Enbrel. It was a game changer. Took it for about 9 years then changed to Rinvoq. Best drug I've ever had. I got my energy back. I have been on it for 5 years. Its expensive but I wad able to get it by apply to the drug manufacturer and got it free. I wish you the best. RA pain is awful. God bless you.
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2 Reactions@jdnc2023 How long have you been taking LDN? I started about 2 months ago. I'm not sure if it is working yet.
@mhughe46 I started last August. I didn't notice measurable results until October. Then, about 6 weeks ago, the symptoms returned. My rheumatologist wouldn't increase my dose past 4.5, but I was able to get AgelessRX to increase it to 6mg. I started this past Friday. I think it's starting to help. My shoes are looser. I hope you obtain good results. There's a reddit group that's very helpful for information and questions.
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1 Reaction@tisme
Try coping with 6 autoimmune illnesses while maintaining balance with bipolar disorder! Ha! It's always something with joint pain, back pain, surgeries, etc. but I always say I'm just glad it doesn't all hit me at once! I can deal with the daily stuff. I had autoimmune illness for 6 years before I had trouble with what turned out to be bipolar. I think someday they'll find there is a connection between inflammation and the brain. I've known several other women who had the same experience.
I hope you can get the pain in your thumbs under control. I have hypermobile Ehlers Danlos with my thumbs. The ligaments were stretched out so badly I had pain and weakness. Now I have pins in my left thumb joint and a screw in my right thumb joint. Since these surgeries I have strong hands for the first time.
Thinking of you with the bp!
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