Living with Parkinson's Disease - Meet others & come say hi

Welcome to the Parkinson's Disease group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with Parkinson's or caring for someone with Parkinson's. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with Parkinson's, coping with the bumps and offering tips.

Chances are you'll to be greeted by fellow member and volunteer patient Mentor, Teresa (@hopeful33250), when you post to this group.

We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.
Let's chat. Why not start by introducing yourself?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Parkinson's Disease Support Group.

Profile picture for halenbon81 @halenbon81

My name is Lynn and I'm a 63 year old male and 8 months ago I was diagnosed with Parkinson's I've always been physically in shape even for my age and I loved being there for people that needed my help. I feel like I'm in denial but I have Parkinson's I've even questioned my doctors the two neurologist told me without a doubt I have Parkinson's. My question is is there anyone else out there that is angry about having Parkinson's it's like I can't believe it I feel like I'm in denial that I even have it. Thank you for listening

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I understand the feeling of not believing a PD diagnosis, @halenbon81! After I began taking PD medication (carbidopa/levodopa) and had more confidence when I walked, I began to accept the fact that if the medicine made a difference, PD must be the correct diagnosis!

I had searched for a number of years to find a neurologist who could help with my balance, gait, and walking problems before the PD diagnosis became a reality. For me, it was a relief.

What type of symptoms led you to the diagnosis of PD? Have medications been tried, and have they been helpful?

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Profile picture for halenbon81 @halenbon81

My name is Lynn and I'm a 63 year old male and 8 months ago I was diagnosed with Parkinson's I've always been physically in shape even for my age and I loved being there for people that needed my help. I feel like I'm in denial but I have Parkinson's I've even questioned my doctors the two neurologist told me without a doubt I have Parkinson's. My question is is there anyone else out there that is angry about having Parkinson's it's like I can't believe it I feel like I'm in denial that I even have it. Thank you for listening

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@halenbon81 time will help you resolve your frustration then all we can do is the best we can do is, do not get upset or inpatient we are all in this together take care of yourself and hopefully you will find someone to connect to personally and have a friend on your side

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Profile picture for halenbon81 @halenbon81

My name is Lynn and I'm a 63 year old male and 8 months ago I was diagnosed with Parkinson's I've always been physically in shape even for my age and I loved being there for people that needed my help. I feel like I'm in denial but I have Parkinson's I've even questioned my doctors the two neurologist told me without a doubt I have Parkinson's. My question is is there anyone else out there that is angry about having Parkinson's it's like I can't believe it I feel like I'm in denial that I even have it. Thank you for listening

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@halenbon81 Hi. I am not angry. I am glad to finally have a box to put this in but I am frustrated by the fact that I made life choices meant to protect my brain only to land in this boat. What annoys me are the chemical manufacturers and the careless or uninformed who use them. Right now I'm distressed over the celebs w/PD who are keeping their mouths shut. This is not an STD in the 50s. They should get out and shout "Hey, people. This is real. We have to fix it."

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@halenbon81 After I was diagnosed, I was in denial for like a year. Every time my symptoms got better, I was cured! It took a long time, but I finally accepted it. I am not sure I am angry about having Parkinsons, but I was angry when doctors asked why I did, like it was my fault. Two doctors have asked me that so far.

Anyway, PD upends your life. No doubt. So yeah, being angry I believe is natural. But what do they say? Get angry, but get over it. You need your whole brain to fight this thing.

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@nova11723
Two doctors asked YOU why you had PD?

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I too was angry at being diagnosed with PD. My diagnosis came about 13 years ago. I was more frightened of the future. The best I can say is there is life after PD diagnosis. You will learn to adapt to symptoms PD puts in your path but being active and accepting small victories over PD you will learn you are the same person you were before your diagnosis. It’s just your body is changing. I was diagnosed at 58 and am now 75. Stay with the support group. It will help.

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Profile picture for agentlady @agentlady

I too was angry at being diagnosed with PD. My diagnosis came about 13 years ago. I was more frightened of the future. The best I can say is there is life after PD diagnosis. You will learn to adapt to symptoms PD puts in your path but being active and accepting small victories over PD you will learn you are the same person you were before your diagnosis. It’s just your body is changing. I was diagnosed at 58 and am now 75. Stay with the support group. It will help.

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This was a great way to describe your adjustment to PD, @agentlady. Being active and accepting small victories is what we all need to do.

Since you were diagnosed some time ago, how are you doing now? What are your most bothersome symptoms?

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