Living with Fibromyalgia: Introduce yourself & meet others

Welcome to the Fibromyalgia Support Group on Mayo Clinic Connect.

This is a welcoming forum where you can meet people who know first-hand about living with fibromyalgia. Together we can learn from each other and share stories about challenges and coping strategies, setbacks and the things that help.

Find your comfy spot, settle in and introduce yourself. What is your experience living with fibromyalgia (i.e., treatment, symptom management, coping strategies, etc.)? Got a question, tip or story to share?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Fibromyalgia Support Group.

Profile picture for SusanEllen66 Susan McMichael @SusanEllen66

@1kay2
I have had fibromyalgia for many, many years.

The polyneuropathy I developed 10 years ago is worse. I had a very rare type of Vasculitis that damaged my nerves.

Now I have Functional Neurological Disorder FND. It’s made my life very difficult.

My friend has PMR. I understand it slightly.

I am almost 77, and have been through a lot. My body is a curse and a blessing.

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@SusanEllen66
looking up these terms... I think that's what they think is going on with me.. I'm heading to neurology for more tests with pin/needles feelings, color changes in feet/hands (raynards) and then back to cardio for the vessel stuff. I was tested in cardio before and have "narrow" veins, blood flow to my feet/limbs. 🙁

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@SusanEllen66
looking up these terms... I think that's what they think is going on with me.. I'm heading to neurology for more tests with pin/needles feelings, color changes in feet/hands (raynards) and then back to cardio for the vessel stuff. I was tested in cardio before and have "narrow" veins, blood flow to my feet/limbs. 🙁

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@hendriksgal I hope you’re given the correct diagnosis and get the help you need.
Keep is informed…

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Hi there, I am interested in following threads about people like myself who have had debilitating symptoms for months, but who still have not gotten a concrete diagnosis. And tips on how to get a concert diagnosis. I seem to currently be ping-ponging back and forth between a rheumatologist and my PCP. Thank you!

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Be patient. Fibromyalgia is a syndrome diagnosed by process of elimination, because it mimics many other things. It took me a year, and a half dozen specialists to figure it out. Rheumatologist is the best specialist to diagnose it. Many people are misdiagnosed, so you have to hang in there. Since they don’t know the cause, they mostly treat symptoms. But the classic, most common reason for its trigger is TRAUMA. Either mental shock, or a physical trauma. Examples include being in a car accident, diagnosed with cancer, or in my case, my Dad committing suicide. People can be genetically prone to it as well. (My Mom had it, but it was undiagnosed.) Docs suspect it’s a central nervous system disorder, which is why Lyrica, Gabapentin, and Cymbalta help. HOWEVER, those are dangerous psychotropic drugs that REWIRE your brain and have severe side effects like memory loss if taken long-term. They also take 6 months to a YEAR to properly get off or else you can get brain damage. Doctors don’t know and don’t titrate carefully off them. Each person is different with varying symptoms. Some have IBS, some don’t. Some get migraines, others don’t. Pain can travel to different parts of body. See why it’s so tricky? You have to try different combinations of meds. I take Tramadol and Prozac. Gentle exercise like yoga or Tai Chi are immensely helpful, as is counseling for depression. Don’t give up. Hugs 🥰 to you!

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Hang in there, I have had debilitating symptoms for years and had all the tests under the sun and it took 5 years to diagnose me with fibromyalgia last September. Never give up, keep going back to your GP and mention you think it could be fibromyalgia. Don't forget though you might be diagnosed with other things as they found I had GORD and I was miss diagnosed with coeliac at one point.
Good luck with your journey.x

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Tagging @onetowatchst, @wendyhobbie, @covidstinks2023, @dianecostella, @rwinney, @marye2, @lacy2, @mayopam, @susanfalcon52, and @dwc62 to get the new group started. You have all recently met one-another in Fibromyalgia: How do you cope - https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/fibromyalgia-3/ discussion.

How are you all doing in your fibromyalgia journey? Any positive trends to share, or pitfalls for newcomers to watch out for?

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@JustinMcClanahan
Hi my name is Teresa not only do I have fibromyalgia I also have advanced MS and pots. It's hell to live with all of this. I do take medication. I'm on a heavy dose of pain medication. I do take baclofen for you. Must relax. I think I'm gonna have to have them up the dose. I'm still having spasms the spasms that are in your body. Those mini spasms but baclofen does work. it also helps with Phibro so does Lyrica don't take gabapentin that stuffed is does not help at all. Just makes you gain a bunch of weight lyrical help somewhat but still if you've got MS or Phibro or any of that stuff you're gonna get really constipated you're gonna have IBS or something with your intestinal track any of that you're also probably really gonna get arthritis. I'm sorry I'm a big bummer but it's not fun. None of it's fun. Hit me up if you want to know

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Hi there, I am interested in following threads about people like myself who have had debilitating symptoms for months, but who still have not gotten a concrete diagnosis. And tips on how to get a concert diagnosis. I seem to currently be ping-ponging back and forth between a rheumatologist and my PCP. Thank you!

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@meco Have you tried seeing doctors at a research hospital? I find that makes the biggest difference. My pain has always been misdiagnosed because conventional doctors have to fit your symptoms in a box. We are outliers and a lot of the science has been developed the last 25-30 years. I wasn’t properly diagnosed until I got in mayo (at 40). It’s taking a few years and hasn’t been easy but I’m feeling so much better now that I’m properly diagnosed and all my symptoms can now be explained and treated. The struggle is real but we can get through it. Good luck!!

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Hi my name is Jen, I turn 50 this august and I was diagnosed at Mayo in MN this past March after 12 years of suffering. Might have been longer...
I cannot express how much it means to have a diagnoses and a plan of action.
Long story short..
I was a VERY active horse woman. I ran a boarding training farm of 30 horses in Northern Illinois and did all the chores myself, cleaning 20 stalls and feeding/watering, stacking hay, mowing, and riding and teaching lessons.
All the sudden I started getting exhausted, taking afternoon naps just to make it thru the day and started gaining weight. I was 155lbs and I'm 210 now. My joints were killing me, I was popping ibuprofen like candy. I had pin and needles in my hands and feet, then I had carpal tunnel surgery as well.
Tests.. so many tests.. I was told its estrogen and then pogestrone... then it might be early menopause and they put me on birth control pills ( i had a tubal long ago) and antidepressants. Random blood tests would pull up Low iron.. and they blammed that. Get my iron good and Vit D dropped.. fixed that, still issues.
I was checked for lupus, hasmintos, sickle cell, lyme disease, hypothyroid tests were not low enough to warrant meds. I've had Covid 4 times, first time lasted 6weeks and they wanted me in the hospital but I would not go. I got vaccinated after that and next three times I had covid were mild and basically every year same time.

I ended up selling my farm (and dream) and moving to be closer to family because I could not handle the physical labor. I quit riding completely and just slept all the time.

New doctors in South Dakota ran me thru the same ringers, same tests, over and over. I needed to lose weight, planned meals, exercise programs were not cutting it. They started me on Ozempic thinking that would help, couldn't handle the side effects and stopped after 6 weeks and a paralized stomach. Shortley after that mess... I ended up having what I thought was a heart attack and 14k in heart tests later, it was my gallbladder. Took that out. Then my toes starting turning purple for no reason and I have Raynard disease. Still exhasted, still no answers.
Endocrinologist put my on Armour, then later Levyothyrine just to try to help... didn't help. Iron went low again, 5 infusions later and a abalation and upper/lower scopes tests and now I have a iron blood anemia disorder to watch closely and they don't know where its going.. lol

I finally gave up and went to Mayo.

Saw Dr Chris Aakre at Mayo Mn, diagnosed me fibromyalgia immediately. I hit all the points on the test. Sent me to sleep clinic, where I was not obstructive apnea but hypersomnia and now use cpap at night. Saw Hemology and got a plan of action for my iron tests and infusions. Tried to get into Pain Clinic, sat there all day.. but couldn't get an appt.
I did not want to go antidepressants again, so Dr Chris put me on LDN 4.5mg and Tonmya at night.
The pain is gone, the buzzy feeling/ vibration in my body has stopped most of the time. My ears still ring, but not as loud. My eyes are still blurry, I'll have to go back to dr to have them looked at again. I'm only been on LDN for 2 mos.
Am I still tired.. yes.. but I haven't needed naps except on days I overdo it.. so that's a given.
I got a Visible bracelet to monitor my exersion.. so I have fewer flares/crashes. I've had one crash in two months and that was in the very beginning at like my LDN 1.5 mg dose. Last week I flew to Florida for a wedding and flew back 24 hrs later.. 4 flights total... no crash so far. (came home last friday) I know I overdid it on that trip... but I feel good.
Things are getting better and I hope you all find your way too. There is no miracle drug.. but so far this is working for me. Now to get back to working out and hopefully riding again soon!

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@hendriksgal Thank you for sharing. Your story isn't exactly like mine but hits such similarities. I didn't, sadly, get answers from Mayo - still working on things there, however, doing my own research ( because we all with Fibro or other undetermined problems become our own advocate),
I recently found LDN and after a month, my PCP agreed and I have mine coming in the mail! I will be titrating up from .5mg every 7 days until find a dose that works - hopefully! The crashes are the hardest. I have lost so much of my life, even a tiny bit of improvement of energy would be a gift!!
Bless you and pray you continue to find those 'things' that help.

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