Lone caregiver: looking to talk about cats, books, music, food, more..

Posted by bigmaya @bigmaya, May 2, 2023

Hello,
I'm a member with the caregivers but would like to hopefully find a couple of people to talk to about cats, books, music, food - most everything under the sun. Thanks🙏šŸŖ»

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@bigmaya

Speaking of cats, l leave bowls with fresh food before l leave for all of them and when l come back in the evening the food has been hardly touched... and people think "animals" don't feel!!! I hate when mean evil people are called animals - no animal does what humans are capable of.

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Bigmaya, What a lovely response. Praying for you & your husband this a.m. I have a question as it sounds like you have had a long life with cats. Mine will simply not drink
water. He is on prescription Royal Canin canned food for his bladder and it has gravy in it, so I add the hydracare from Purina as well. Any suggestions to get him to drink water? Thank you precious lady! Hugs & Prayers...."People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care". -author unknown

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@bigmaya

Thank you J💐
Sounds like you and your husband lead an interesting and fullfilling life!! Great, enjoy!
A pet is always a great addition - provided of course it can be properly taken care of. Ours are of course a load of work but they also keep us busy, entertained and less lonely.

If you care to share l'd love to hear about the subjects you write about.😺

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@bigmaya Yes, we should be thankful that our lives have lots of interesting activities, a lot of travel, mostly for academic conferences and research in libraries and archives in Austria and Germany. I write about music in the Mozart period and I edit unpublished musical works (mostly sacred music) that I find in archives. My editions make available music to be performed by musicians today that otherwise would remain buried in archives. It is very interesting. Our cats heard a lot of music!

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Hi, I'm not a caregiver, but I am full of admiration for people who care for loved ones 🥰.

I am a music lover, with a fairly broad range of musical taste. Being a musician, some of it is a bit esoteric. But my classical music tastes are not! I adore Schubert, and think his 5th symphony is sublime. I don't really listen to country music, but just heard an amazing rendition of Hoagy Carmichael's Stardust by Willie Nelson. So beautiful....

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@ricm58

Hi, I'm not a caregiver, but I am full of admiration for people who care for loved ones 🥰.

I am a music lover, with a fairly broad range of musical taste. Being a musician, some of it is a bit esoteric. But my classical music tastes are not! I adore Schubert, and think his 5th symphony is sublime. I don't really listen to country music, but just heard an amazing rendition of Hoagy Carmichael's Stardust by Willie Nelson. So beautiful....

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Hello Ricm58,
I looked up Hoagy Carmichel both by Willie Nelson and alone and loved it!! Thanks for the tip!!
I don't like symphonies, l derive more pleasure from listening to a single instrument- violin, cello, though l also love trios, quartets and quintets. I adore Nathan Milstein, Arthur Gromiaux, l could go on and on. But l also love B.B. King, The Stones, Tina Turner and so many more😺💐

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Yes, my taste is broad too! The Itzhak Perlman recording of Paganini's 24 Caprices is wonderful. I love rock too... the Eagles' Hotel California, Pink Floyd's Dark Side of the Moon. One song I really love is Life's been good by Joe Walsh. And She's not there by Santana 😍

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I just wanted to add this beautiful gardenia that blossomed yesterday in our garden. But am not sure it's working... Wish you could all enoy the fragrance, so lovely

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You mentioned cats. I have had several cats throughout my lifetime. My current cat PICKED me when I went to the local Humane Society. He must have known something! He has been the sweetest ever, but I cannot let him go outside as it is too dangerous here with owls, eagles, fox etc. He has adjusted well to being inside only. I have screen doors for him to get a sniff of the outside, plus I have many hanging bird feeders for him to watch from inside. Heā€™s such good company. We take ā€œcatnapsā€ every day after lunch.

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Bigmaya, What a lovely response. Praying for you & your husband this a.m. I have a question as it sounds like you have had a long life with cats. Mine will simply not drink
water. He is on prescription Royal Canin canned food for his bladder and it has gravy in it, so I add the hydracare from Purina as well. Any suggestions to get him to drink water? Thank you precious lady! Hugs & Prayers...."People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care". -author unknown

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My cat drinks some water every day, but his favorite is a bit of milk.

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@basslakebabe19

My cat drinks some water every day, but his favorite is a bit of milk.

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I think the reply is on the wrong conversationā€¦ā€¦

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