Terrified: Soon to have open heart surgery, so many questions

Posted by mrsjaxx727 @mrsjaxx727, Nov 13, 2019

Soon to have open heart surgery and i am terrified aboit how much pain there will be of how long the ventalstor will be on me im terrified of it all..has anyone had this surgery and tell me expect or am i over thinking it ?

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I had open heart surgery on May 5th to replace a failing mitral valve with a pig valve. Like you,I was terrified, so terrified I planned my memorial service, paid bills, and prepared for our daughter to come and care for her disabled father. To my surprise, there was a cancellation and my surgery was earlier than anticipated. The next thing I remember is waking up in a hospital bed. I had minimal pain and nurses showed me how to get out of bed safely. A nurse always accompanied me to the bathroom. The pain management was excellent. I was in rehab five days, was dismissed, went home, and followed the instructions I received to the letter. During the next few weeks my shortness of breath disappeared (I had been in acute heart failure) and my energy returned. Today, I'm back to being my husband's caregiver and back to my writing career. The biggest surprise is that I lost 20 pounds. According to my primary care physician, the build-up of fluid in my body was caused by my failing heart. I am thrilled with my recovery, grateful to my surgeon, and the health care team.

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@harriethodgson1

I had open heart surgery for acute heart failure on May 8th. My mitral valve was replaced with a pig valve. Like you, I was terrified before surgery. As I approached the operating room (not in it) I was given anesthesia. The next thing I remember is waking up on a hospital bed. I had little pain and was taught how to get out of bed with minimal pain and without disturbing any stitches. I followed recovery instructions to the letter. Today, I have enough breath, can walk longer distances, and continue to be my disabled husband's caregiver. Be of good cheer. You will be amazed at how much better you feel after surgery.

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I ditto " that

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@pha2340840

Thank you for he encouragement.

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Mine was almost 5 years ago. My doc claims (to my face anyway) I'm the healthiest patient he sees. I had a quad due to blockages.

The worst days are right afterward, but go to cardiac rehab, do NOT sit around after your procedure. Also, walk. If it's cold outside go to the grocery store and simply use the cart as your walker for steadiness and peruse ALL aisles, go slowly until you get your "sea legs" and can manage the entire store. Walmart, Big Lots, even the CVS is large enough to give you a great walkabout in an indoor locale.

Glad you are here, great advice found here and great encouragement.
Eileen

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@eileena

Mine was almost 5 years ago. My doc claims (to my face anyway) I'm the healthiest patient he sees. I had a quad due to blockages.

The worst days are right afterward, but go to cardiac rehab, do NOT sit around after your procedure. Also, walk. If it's cold outside go to the grocery store and simply use the cart as your walker for steadiness and peruse ALL aisles, go slowly until you get your "sea legs" and can manage the entire store. Walmart, Big Lots, even the CVS is large enough to give you a great walkabout in an indoor locale.

Glad you are here, great advice found here and great encouragement.
Eileen

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Eileen, thanks for reminding me about grocery store exercise. I walked every aisle several times and it helped.

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@eileena

Mine was almost 5 years ago. My doc claims (to my face anyway) I'm the healthiest patient he sees. I had a quad due to blockages.

The worst days are right afterward, but go to cardiac rehab, do NOT sit around after your procedure. Also, walk. If it's cold outside go to the grocery store and simply use the cart as your walker for steadiness and peruse ALL aisles, go slowly until you get your "sea legs" and can manage the entire store. Walmart, Big Lots, even the CVS is large enough to give you a great walkabout in an indoor locale.

Glad you are here, great advice found here and great encouragement.
Eileen

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Encouraging - my open heart surgery is on 2/3. Worrisome but confident that I’ll be ok

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@pha2340840

Encouraging - my open heart surgery is on 2/3. Worrisome but confident that I’ll be ok

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@pha2340840 I had my triple by pass in 1996 never had any pain after the surgery. That will be 23 yrs this Feb 18 2020

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@harriethodgson1

I had open heart surgery on May 5th to replace a failing mitral valve with a pig valve. Like you,I was terrified, so terrified I planned my memorial service, paid bills, and prepared for our daughter to come and care for her disabled father. To my surprise, there was a cancellation and my surgery was earlier than anticipated. The next thing I remember is waking up in a hospital bed. I had minimal pain and nurses showed me how to get out of bed safely. A nurse always accompanied me to the bathroom. The pain management was excellent. I was in rehab five days, was dismissed, went home, and followed the instructions I received to the letter. During the next few weeks my shortness of breath disappeared (I had been in acute heart failure) and my energy returned. Today, I'm back to being my husband's caregiver and back to my writing career. The biggest surprise is that I lost 20 pounds. According to my primary care physician, the build-up of fluid in my body was caused by my failing heart. I am thrilled with my recovery, grateful to my surgeon, and the health care team.

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@harriethodgson1- Harriet, so happy for you! Nice to read a good outcome. Jim@thankful

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@thankful

@harriethodgson1- Harriet, so happy for you! Nice to read a good outcome. Jim@thankful

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You give me courage - thank you!

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@eileena

Mine was almost 5 years ago. My doc claims (to my face anyway) I'm the healthiest patient he sees. I had a quad due to blockages.

The worst days are right afterward, but go to cardiac rehab, do NOT sit around after your procedure. Also, walk. If it's cold outside go to the grocery store and simply use the cart as your walker for steadiness and peruse ALL aisles, go slowly until you get your "sea legs" and can manage the entire store. Walmart, Big Lots, even the CVS is large enough to give you a great walkabout in an indoor locale.

Glad you are here, great advice found here and great encouragement.
Eileen

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Thanks for reassuring me. Mayo is the Best!

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@harriethodgson1

I had open heart surgery on May 5th to replace a failing mitral valve with a pig valve. Like you,I was terrified, so terrified I planned my memorial service, paid bills, and prepared for our daughter to come and care for her disabled father. To my surprise, there was a cancellation and my surgery was earlier than anticipated. The next thing I remember is waking up in a hospital bed. I had minimal pain and nurses showed me how to get out of bed safely. A nurse always accompanied me to the bathroom. The pain management was excellent. I was in rehab five days, was dismissed, went home, and followed the instructions I received to the letter. During the next few weeks my shortness of breath disappeared (I had been in acute heart failure) and my energy returned. Today, I'm back to being my husband's caregiver and back to my writing career. The biggest surprise is that I lost 20 pounds. According to my primary care physician, the build-up of fluid in my body was caused by my failing heart. I am thrilled with my recovery, grateful to my surgeon, and the health care team.

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How encouraging to read this! My surgeon is still not sure what he will do until he opens me up! I’m not concerned about the surgery, but the recovery! Surgeries go well with me, it’s the restless legs, bowels that have a mind of their own, the foggy brain, etc. that concerns me! I love to walk, but my bladder fell a few months ago and I was mentally and physically preparing for that surgery when my mitral valve started to have major issues. Now I’m preparing for open heart surgery and the major bladder surgery is pushed into the long away future. Thank you for the suggestion of pushing a cart (mine will be the little one at at Food Lion, because the ones at Wal Mart are so damaged they hurt my bladder). I love to walk in our woods, but I think I need an even, level surface at first!

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