Need to vent over scams and taking advantage of the vulnerable

Posted by akela09 @akela09, May 26 8:08am

Yesterday morning my husband “ who as been diagnosed with vascular dementia “ walked into the kitchen and started telling me about this amazing supplement endorsed by Bill Gates that could stop or reverse dementia, but it was really expensive and he was hesitant to try it. I knew immediately it was a scam, however I didn’t say anything because he just sounded so hopeful, at the same time my blood was boiling over people taking advantage of the vulnerable. After thinking about it for a while I decided to look up information concerning the ad so I could show him the truth, thankfully he accepted it and understood, but it got me thinking about all the other people that don’t have a advocate for them and they fall for these scams. I still feel so disgusted and angry over the hold thing.
I wanted to share to maybe prevent someone else from falling for this and to also ask has anyone else been through this and how did you handle it.

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@wctdoc1943 I find it amazing and frustrating how my husband complains and tells me all things that he is having trouble with but when he talks to people including his doctor manages to completely convince them he is doing great. Or how he messes up his phone and the tv all the time, we also had to open a new checking because he got scammed by a PCH scam. but can go out and trim branches, still volunteers once a week. It’s exhausting trying to figure out what or how he will be day to day.

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@akela09 I understand. You see things that others cannot see and you are the best judge of his limitations. If he's like my wife, most anything electronic trips her up. So far, she comes to me when she gets spammed or phished. I know it could change and I'm vigilant. I do all banking and credit cards online, but I monitor statements and transactions fairly often.

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@judimahoney we both have iPhones and it is in settings under Focus. Select do not disturb and there is a place to allow selected contacts to ring thru. Other numbers will show up in recent but will not ring. At first my husband would ask me about the recent calls, like did we know someone is some state intending to call them back. Now he just deletes the number. I search these things out to explain how to do step by step

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@jenniferkr
Hi, we have Android phones, but I can do an internet search if it's different in my Settings.
Thanks.

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There is a pop-up asking you to turn off your adblock if you use one, but this site has some good info:
https://www.howtogeek.com/782433/how-to-use-focus-mode-on-android/

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