Support Group for Those of Us Living With Mild Dementia

I know there is a Dementia Caregiver Support Group.

I would like to have a group for people like me. I am entering the Mild Dementia phase from Mild Cognitive Impairment.
It’s frightening to think about my future.

Could a group for Dementia Patients be started?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Aging Well Support Group.

We all should remember that we are not the person we were fifty years ago. Time takes its toll on our bodies and minds. Realize this and adjust your life.

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Profile picture for craigbyrom @craigbyrom

Well,
I’ve been diagnosed with MCI; as I’ve spoke about here and have been sharing my experiences and symptoms.
I have been sharing these same experiences/ symptoms with all my doctors.
Had neurology appointment today and he broke the news that everything is pointing towards Lewy Body Dementia and is starting me on Donepezil or Don Perrone.😁
Sorry I had to throw a joke in there as it’s my way of coping.
I have been thinking that this is what I was going to hear from him based on my research, but it’s a lot heavier when he says it.
I hope the Donepezil will help.
I look forward to my visit in June and all the additional and new testing. Need to make sure they plan on skin biopsy for me.
I am blessed to have loving children, my son is my champion with all of this.
Thanks for reading.

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@craigbyrom, if we can’t laugh, what’s the point. I know I’m batsh*t crazy but when I take my meds as prescribed other people aren’t jerks.

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It would be most welcoming!

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Profile picture for Pattee Fletcher @fletchette

Hi Susan, thanks for your note. I do have vascular dementia as confirmed by CT scans last autumn. I was diagnosed with MCI about 3 years ago based on written and oral tests. But now I show my red blood vessels are shrinking and my memory is a bit worse. I also have some minor gait issues. I’ve been prescribed 2 drugs, memantine and Rivastigmine (a patch I change daily). And I have put myself on the Mind Diet (easy to find on the internet). A big change in my eating habits but I hope, worthwhile.
I’m 77 years old, married with 2 daughters and 4 grandchildren. I live in Columbia. I garden. I read, but don’t remember much day to day - a huge pain! We love to travel and so far, that’s OK.
I’m you want to chat privately, text me at 14107074398.
It’s not a death sentence, yet☺️

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I, too, identify with what you are experiencing and am scheduled for an MRI of my brain this Thursday. Did you get your results immediately?

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I, too, identify with what you are experiencing and am scheduled for an MRI of my brain this Thursday. Did you get your results immediately?

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@sharonlynne I did. My radiology center has a patient portal and the results go in quickly. But I don’t always understand what specific results mean. So I need my neurologist to explain. I had a CT SCAN for the overall condition and a PT scan for Alzheimer’s. I have vascular dementia and not Alzheimer’s dementia.
Wishing you well.

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Profile picture for hraka13 @hraka13

@craigbyrom, if we can’t laugh, what’s the point. I know I’m batsh*t crazy but when I take my meds as prescribed other people aren’t jerks.

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@hraka13 I love your sense of humor. Makes life better!

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Profile picture for labrown @labrown

@dbamos1945 There are two books I have read that really gave me insight as to what a person dealing with Dementia experiences. Reading them gave me a better understanding of what my husband was experiencing. “Still Alice” and “Still Me.” I highly recommend you read them.

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@labrown
Actually Still Alice is one of my favorite movies, has been for a long time. Well worth watching. Regards, Ashley

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What you’re describing is actually something a lot of people in early stages of Dementia and Mild Cognitive Impairment quietly wish existed, because caregiver groups don’t always fit when you’re still very much aware of your own changes and trying to process what’s happening from the inside, and while there are some “early-stage dementia” or “living with dementia” groups out there (often run through organizations like the Alzheimer's Association), they can be hard to find or not available everywhere, so the idea of starting a dedicated group for people in the mild stage is actually really valid since it would give a space to talk openly about fears, future planning, and day-to-day coping without it being framed through a caregiver lens, and it doesn’t even have to be complicated to start sometimes even a small local or online group where people just meet regularly to share experiences and practical tips is enough to make a big difference in feeling less isolated.

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What you’re describing is actually something a lot of people in early stages of Dementia and Mild Cognitive Impairment quietly wish existed, because caregiver groups don’t always fit when you’re still very much aware of your own changes and trying to process what’s happening from the inside, and while there are some “early-stage dementia” or “living with dementia” groups out there (often run through organizations like the Alzheimer's Association), they can be hard to find or not available everywhere, so the idea of starting a dedicated group for people in the mild stage is actually really valid since it would give a space to talk openly about fears, future planning, and day-to-day coping without it being framed through a caregiver lens, and it doesn’t even have to be complicated to start sometimes even a small local or online group where people just meet regularly to share experiences and practical tips is enough to make a big difference in feeling less isolated.

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@jayanthk, thanks to @SusanEllen66 efforts in starting this discussion and forming a supportive group of people living with cognitive impairment, we will be opening a new support group on Mayo Clinic Connect soon (likely June).

To everyone, here is a list of Support Groups by condition on Mayo Clinic Connect https://connect.mayoclinic.org/groups/

Following the naming convention and to help people find the new group in an alphabetical list, what name would you call the group?
A. Cognitive Impairment & Living with Early Dementia
B. Dementia: Living with Cognitive Impairment
C. Early Dementia & Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

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