Venting

@stk You said, "...I am currently thinking that I may have to move to get an area where I can get better care (and to where my wife can actually get an appointment with a rheumatologist)."

I say "Look before you leap!" Access to excellent medical care is a concern shared by millions in this country. With the aging population, insurance companies dictating many aspects of care, and fewer young people entering hands-on patient-centric specialties, even in major "medical marketplaces" ready access to care is uncertain. Unfortunately, the highest density of specialists often is in the highest-cost living areas.

Is there a middle path for you? Can you look at a major metro area near you, but within reasonable travel distance, where both of you can find care? Even if it requires the occasional overnight stay in a hotel, it would be cheaper and less disruptive to life than a relocation.

@sueinmn You are correct. There are two larger nearby metro areas that I will look into. Thank you.

Hello, I just wanted to reiterate that I totally agree with @sueinmn and add support to her suggestions. I, too, live in a rural area with limited medical resources but I travel to a larger metro city for second opinions or for some speciality services. I ensure that copies of all medical notes/tests, etc., are forwarded to my rural cardiologist so that they have all the clinical information available. I have learned that “the grass isn’t always greener” the hard way, and I know I that have to stay proactive on keeping my medical care team informed. Our overall healthcare system has become very fragmented post-COVID and requires our own due diligence of our health information. Sounds like you are on top of your health information too which I feel is so important these days. Best of luck to you and your wife in your health care journey.