The Chat Room: A place to talk about this and that

Posted by John, Volunteer Mentor @johnbishop, Oct 3, 2020

Have you discovered mutual likes or common points of interest with other members while talking about the medical stuff? Sometimes these discoveries take us off topic.

Welcome to The Chat Room.
This is a place to talk about this and that over the backyard fence so to speak. To invite a fellow member or members to the chat room, simply mention their @username. They will get an email to join the conversation here.

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@thisismarilynb I can relate to the former self believing everything that was told to me! Boy was I naive!! How long were you in the hospital with scarlet fever?? That must have been truly terrifying, especially at the age of 10. You are a survivor, that’s for sure! You’re also quite an inspiration! I bet you have many fascinating stories to share. Do you enjoy any type of exercise, whether physical or mental? Im also curious what your diet is like, if you dont mind my asking?

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@bluebird5
Hard to remember how long I was in the hospital, but I think it was 3 weeks to a month. I know I was in the 5th grade, but even though I missed a lot of school, they didn't keep me back.
I was a race walker for many years. I stopped at the track at Cal Tech, which was on my way home from work, and did several miles each day. I retired at age 67. We moved so I didn't have a track available. That is when I became a street walker. (That is a kind of a joke.) While this kept me healthy and in good physical shape, it also wore out my right hip. So in 2021, at age 87, I had it replaced. This was shortly after my husband had died, so it was really rough, but I survived again. I read a lot and do crossword puzzles. I eat only what I like. I have never liked sweet tasting things, so very little sugar. I also eat very little dairy because I do not like the taste. I have breakfast late. Not the so-called normal breakfast. I make grits, bulgar, lentils, etc. For me it is just a hot breakfast. I have never been a snacker. I do not drink coffee because it has too much acid for me. I drink plain tea. By that I mean I do not add sugar, lemon, milk or honey. Then I have dinner a little earlier than most people - like about 4:00 P.M. A couple of years ago I had a long appointment with a nutritionist. He went over every thing I ate and what supplements I take. He told me I ate fine, but too much. So he gave me pictures of what a normal portion looks like. I have tried to follow his advice and so far have dropped 20 lbs. I have fallen off the exercise wagon now I am afraid. I really should walk more, but I don't. Yes, I do have a lot of memories. My husband and I were able to do a lot of travelling. At first when our boys were young, we had a tent trailer and travelled all over the U.S. and Canada with them. When they got older, we switched over to cruising. For many years we took luxury cruises. We found they were not that much more expensive because you pay for everything up front. So even the excursions were included. We went everywhere, from the Arctic to the Antarctic and all inbetween. Now at 91 I guess I am in a holding position. You can't know how much longer you have, so I am just waiting.

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@bustrbrwn22 @lioness @sunnyflower @woogie @cb772

Decided to post this response over in this discussion that covers any topic.

You guys were talking about suicide and the spiritual ramifications of doing oneself in. My belief is that God is love, pure and simple. He loves every single person no matter how heinous the things they have done in life are. So when we die, by whatever means (including suicide), He sends us to wherever is best for us at the time. And He puts us through whatever is best for us to go through. Sure it might not be enjoyable for a time, and it might seem like hell. But it will never be forever. God is not out for punishment, He isn't about that. He loves us and we are a tiny part of Him.

So yes, perhaps there will be a consequence for suicide, but it won't be to punish, it will be to teach. That is my own humble opinion. Hank

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@jesfactsmon @sunnyflower

As a green bandana member, Not all religion leads to suicide. But also, I agree that He does send us anything that we are ready for, but He will never send us anything that we aren't ready for. That is my humble opinion 🙂
let me know if you have questions 🙂
Ginny Snow

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You said talk about anything so here goes. I just finished reading a rather long article about Superager Brains. I fit into that category as I am 91 years old and show no signs of dementia; live alone; and drive. It said I am among 5% of the population. The 5% struck a hard gong with me. Several years ago I almost died because of an anaphylactic reaction to lisinopril. In ICU for 3 days. Later I had to go to the Allergist for a follow up. He told me that 5% of the population react to lisinopril that way. Two 5%??? What do you think? Coincidence or something else?

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@thisismarilynb
I have taken Lisinopril for years. What happened to you, what was the reaction?

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@thisismarilynb
I have taken Lisinopril for years. What happened to you, what was the reaction?

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@newrochelle1131
I had an anaphylactic reaction. My throat swelled up and I couldn't breathe. The minute my husband brought me into the E.R., they rushed me up to ICU. I was there for three days. Then they wanted me to stay in the regular hospital section for a week for observation. Later I had to come back for an appointment with the allergist. He told me that 5% of the population have this reaction to lisinopril.

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Sorry to hear that. What a horror show!

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@jesfactsmon @sunnyflower

As a green bandana member, Not all religion leads to suicide. But also, I agree that He does send us anything that we are ready for, but He will never send us anything that we aren't ready for. That is my humble opinion 🙂
let me know if you have questions 🙂
Ginny Snow

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@ginnysnow What is green bandana?

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@ginnysnow What is green bandana?

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@newrochelle1131

Glad you asked, Mental health and suicide prevention

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@newrochelle1131

Glad you asked, Mental health and suicide prevention

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@ginnysnow Thank you. Would have never put it together.

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@ginnysnow Thank you. Would have never put it together.

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@newrochelle1131

any time 🙂

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Does anyone remember getting their tonsils out at age 5ish? That was horrible and I cannot believe I can remember it. The only good part was we were allowed to have lots of ice cream. And I was in a crib!!!!

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