Problem Taking Showers

I'm very sorry that you also need oxygen which makes my issue seem so easy compared to what you have to deal with. I just wish that I could just jump in and enjoy it but it just doesn't happen often enough. There are so many things that I need to do just in the apartment that I have no desire to do. My nurse practitioner (who takes care of my meds) wants me to see a therapist for talk therapy because most of my issues are situational, mostly financial and not having a car anymore and I live in a rather isolated place (nice but no bus lines like most normal cities have). You have a wonderful attitude and I admire you for that. I know that exercising would help me but even that seems like a huge task but I can do it. I walk down to Dunkin Donuts which is about a 10 to 15 minute walk. I'm getting off track. Thank you for sharing your feelings and I wish you all the best. You go girl! : )

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I am so glad you replied! I think that we are all given what is relative to our own situations and what may seem daunting and overwhelming to me may be something that is not an issue for you. That's why we are able to help each other; We are not all overwhelmed at the same time or on the same day. I gave up my car about a year ago as I was running over curbs and thought I might be running over people soon ( Aging eyesight!) So here we are.
Somone had to ask me "What I did for fun?" before I realized I didn't even know! I took my answer back to a simpler place. What do I still enjoy doing? What can I still do? Think back to something you liked and start doing it. a little at a time. I'll write later

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As far as what I love/like to do that I enjoy, I truly don't enjoy very much as of late. Many years ago I painted in oils and I really loved it but things change and I stopped many years ago. I also loved to sketch but what always happens is "I don't think I could do that anymore", loss of confidence. I love tennis (actually I'm addicted to it. I played when I was in my early twenties but once you lose your partner (she didn't die) : )it's pretty hard to find another one. I have always loved it since Bjorn Borg (my all-time favorite) and that was in the late 70's. Now I have the Tennis Channel and I am addicted to it and I absolutely love it. I clap and yell so yes, this is one thing that I really get excited about. Thanks for your honest reply and I love that you have a great sense of humor. Nancy

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Hi Nancy: I can't believe there is another "Tennis Addict" who still loves Borg, Connors and McEnroe! Actually, the McEnroe brothers! I have played all my life; recently watched the Australian Open. Are you watching Coco Gauff?
It's a small world huh? The French is coming up soon at Roland Garros, I look forward to the matches in between also. They are playing at Indian Wells right now. I am a tennis channel binger.
I wish I could sketch; I draw "Stick People." My childhood was spent doing sports and not the arts or creative interests. so, there I am. Really stick people. Can you draw animals? I wish I could draw a picture of my cat!
do you have any animals? My cat has saved my life; emotionally. I'm single and live alone and she is a great companion (listens to all my BS!). Born and raised in San Francisco. I was a "Hippie!" I yell and clap at the tv also!
Enough for now Georgie

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I can't believe it! Finally someone who appreciates the art of tennis. People don't know what they are missing. Imagine saying that tennis is boring, just hitting a ball back and forth. What about a bunch of giants jumping on one poor man carrying a ball and needing all of them to stop the man. Really?? You are lucky to have been playing so long. I too live along and have a cat, "Lola", a.k.a. Fatso. She weighs 18.2 lbs. You know, I think it would be better to email one another than posting here because I don't know how it will be taken. If this is okay with you. We seem to have a lot in common and it would be nice to have another friend who understands. I don't know if it would be a good idea to share my email here even though the beginning shows up or am I missing something?? Anyway, if you would like to do this just let me know. Have a good day! : )

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Hi Nancy: my cats name is "Cricket! Hi to Lola.

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Hi Nancy: I tried to give you my e mail and they wouldn't let me because I am a new member. I'll figure it out!
so glad we found such a common ground. Watched young Alcarez play this afternoon; what a super young player he is turning out to be.
I had visiting Wimbledon on my Bucket list and even though I was able to do some great travelling before I got sick, London was not on my itinerary. Now it won't happen, but I love that grand slam with all its' tradition and history! Love all the slams
ill try again re e mail.
Georgie

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I can't believe it! Finally someone who appreciates the art of tennis. People don't know what they are missing. Imagine saying that tennis is boring, just hitting a ball back and forth. What about a bunch of giants jumping on one poor man carrying a ball and needing all of them to stop the man. Really?? You are lucky to have been playing so long. I too live along and have a cat, "Lola", a.k.a. Fatso. She weighs 18.2 lbs. You know, I think it would be better to email one another than posting here because I don't know how it will be taken. If this is okay with you. We seem to have a lot in common and it would be nice to have another friend who understands. I don't know if it would be a good idea to share my email here even though the beginning shows up or am I missing something?? Anyway, if you would like to do this just let me know. Have a good day! : )

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@nscappa and @grayner, Connect is a public forum. If you wish to share personal contact information, it is better to use the secure private message function.

I might also add that by sharing here in the forum, you are connecting with several people where all can benefit from group support.

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Thank you Colleen I wasn't aware of this. How can I find where this option is. Thanks again! : )

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