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Pre ejaculate

Posted by olderandwiser @olderandwiser, Feb 13 4:27pm

Does anyone else have this problem?
Every time I even think about sex or get the slightest turned on, I start leaking pre ejaculate (pre cum) like crazy. I am now 71 and I am still leaking it like I did when I was a teenager!
It seems that at my age, that should slow down like everything else did.
I think that my cowpers gland is the healthiest part of my old body!

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bigj | @bigj | Feb 14 12:17am

Hi what average times a 65 + to have sex a month

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olderandwiser | @olderandwiser | Feb 14 11:12am

I'm not sure what the average is as I can only speak for myself.
I usually have sex two to three times a week although 90 percent of the time It is by masturbating.

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billybwbf2 | @billybwbf2 | Feb 14 11:57am

Consider yourself a lucky man! I too was always very active until I had to have a prostatectomy! My wife and I enjoyed our last time together the night before my surgery! On October 22 my sex life ended and I sure miss it!

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olderandwiser | @olderandwiser | Feb 14 1:35pm
In reply to @billybwbf2 "Consider yourself a lucky man! I too was always very active until I had to have..." + (show)
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Consider yourself a lucky man! I too was always very active until I had to have a prostatectomy! My wife and I enjoyed our last time together the night before my surgery! On October 22 my sex life ended and I sure miss it!

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I'm so sorry to hear that. Can you still masturbate?

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billybwbf2 | @billybwbf2 | Feb 14 6:30pm

Yes, thank goodness being erect is not a prerequisite for orgasm. After the meds got out of my system my desire returned.

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olderandwiser | @olderandwiser | Feb 14 6:43pm

Well, there are more ways to make love than just intercourse, and you don't need an erection.
When my erections started to fade, we just had oral sex that much more! (which was fine with my wife as that is the only way that she can have an orgasm) and she found my softer penis more fun to suck on!
And if all else fails, you can still masturbate.
Has the doctor given you any suggestions on getting your erections back?

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billybwbf2 | @billybwbf2 | Feb 14 7:29pm

Yes, I just got an Rx for tri mix! I hope it works! I agree with your suggestions also! Thanks

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arctic22 | @arctic22 | Feb 15 10:20am
In reply to @billybwbf2 "Consider yourself a lucky man! I too was always very active until I had to have..." + (show)
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Consider yourself a lucky man! I too was always very active until I had to have a prostatectomy! My wife and I enjoyed our last time together the night before my surgery! On October 22 my sex life ended and I sure miss it!

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@billybwbf2 look into penile implants regain what you have lost ..go to a good site called franktalk.com become a member it's free anything and everything you ever wanted to know about implants is there .. I got one back in 2023 best thing i ever did and medicare depending on which type u have pays for most of it.

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billybwbf2 | @billybwbf2 | Feb 15 1:40pm

Thank you I will join

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olderandwiser | @olderandwiser | Feb 20 9:11pm

Funny, I started this post to discuss my pre-ejaculation concerns and every comment has been about everything but.
Am I the only 71 year old that leaks like crazy at the very thought of sex!

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