Pre ejaculate
Does anyone else have this problem?
Every time I even think about sex or get the slightest turned on, I start leaking pre ejaculate (pre cum) like crazy. I am now 71 and I am still leaking it like I did when I was a teenager!
It seems that at my age, that should slow down like everything else did.
I think that my cowpers gland is the healthiest part of my old body!
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Hi what average times a 65 + to have sex a month
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1 ReactionConsider yourself a lucky man! I too was always very active until I had to have a prostatectomy! My wife and I enjoyed our last time together the night before my surgery! On October 22 my sex life ended and I sure miss it!
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2 ReactionsYes, thank goodness being erect is not a prerequisite for orgasm. After the meds got out of my system my desire returned.
Yes, I just got an Rx for tri mix! I hope it works! I agree with your suggestions also! Thanks
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1 Reaction@billybwbf2 look into penile implants regain what you have lost ..go to a good site called franktalk.com become a member it's free anything and everything you ever wanted to know about implants is there .. I got one back in 2023 best thing i ever did and medicare depending on which type u have pays for most of it.
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1 ReactionThank you I will join
@olderandwiser Yes, as masturbation is fine sex, with a partner or alone. Many ways to accomplish this.
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2 ReactionsI sometime have pre ejaculate cum when thinking of sex, even without an erection helps with masturbating, nothing like a good wank and also could help with vaginal penetration.
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2 Reactions@olderandwiser, I'm in my mid-70s. I wish I had your problem of leaking pre-ejaculate. I had radiation treatment for prostate cancer 20 years ago and a TURP 10 years after that. I am not sure of the timing, but I think after the radiation but before the TURP, my ejaculate gradually dried up so that when I masturbated to ejaculation the amount was greatly diminished and it was watery. I probably should have asked the urologist what was happening, but my guess was that whereas the radiation had killed off the prostate, the cowpers glands were still producing pre-ejaculate which was only being expelled during orgasm. A subsequent salvage prostatectomy has left me impotent, and unlike some of the commenters on this string I have never been able to reach orgasm with a flaccid penis, even with an expensive Viberect penile vibrator concentrating on my frenulum remnant.
I’m in my mid 70’s also but had nothing medically done ‘down there’. I get semi-hard, firm is what i call it. Not stiff enough to insert. I eventually climax but it takes a long time and the ejaculation is a fraction of what it once was. Even in my 50’s a woman would say ‘wow that was a lot of cum’. No more. I need to be careful not to damage the skin. I should use lubricant but things are such at home I don’t want to be discovered, so no oil. It takes a LOMG time and I’m guessing most women would’t want to work that hard or that long. Still, it sure feels good for that wonderful moment even-though it’s hardly a dribble. The feeling and the smell take me back to fun times! Wonder what some of those women are doing now?
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