Please Share 3 Things You Appreciate about Being Old

Posted by Miriam, Volunteer Mentor @mir123, Nov 27 10:00am

It's Thanksgiving, so I'm looking at the positive. Some folks don't like the word "old" but I don't mind it. You can substitute "aging" if you prefer! I'm thrilled to be 71 and looking at 72. Due to serious health concerns in my youth I never expected to make it this far. So here goes--and I hope you can join in.

My Three Positive Things

1. I know what my ethics and beliefs are, and I'm no longer worried I might betray them because of outside pressure.
2. I can tell a good story based on life experience.
3. I'm less self critical. My mom told me that if she made a mistake she'd say "you're so clumsy" to herself. When she turned 80 she changed and told herself "you're doing great!"

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1.more wisdom
2. appreciation of all living things.
3. Believe in something bigger than ourselves.

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@kllevinson beautiful!

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3 things I am thankful for about being old:
1. Having accumulated “enough,” I am figuring out how to usefully contribute to causes I believe in;
2. I can do much of what I want to do without pressure from others; and
3. My children are raised and very nice, resourceful and interesting people.

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1. Perspective
2. Emotional maturity
3. Feeling comfortable with my imperfections. I am who I am.

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3 things I am thankful for about being old:
1. Having accumulated “enough,” I am figuring out how to usefully contribute to causes I believe in;
2. I can do much of what I want to do without pressure from others; and
3. My children are raised and very nice, resourceful and interesting people.

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@hicopd That is lovely to hear!

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Three things I like about getting older:
1. Not caring if someone does not like me
2. Not working anymore
3. Feeling comfortable in my skin for the first time.

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When I do really dumb stuff, I can pass it off as senility.

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1.more wisdom
2. appreciation of all living things.
3. Believe in something bigger than ourselves.

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@kllevinson

Great answers!

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@kathymj my mother-in-law used to say —5 years from now , what age you are now will look ‘young’… she lived to about 93.

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@nycmusic
Your m-i-l was a wise woman!

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