I am involved in a business with an adult son. Our relationship is totally dysfunctional.
We recently had a serious business disagreement involving distribution of commissions..we have a Real Estate company. Whenever I disagree with him, my son reacts violently...rages...recently he has "dis-owned" his mother and me as well as anyone else who won't agree with him that I am a villain, a thief, a dishonest person.
Anyway, I am struggling mentally about this, almost grieving as though I am experiencing the death of a son. I think we are both at fault but I think my son in an extreme narcissist and over the years I have been his victim...he mani ultra things imposing what my wife, his mother, and I have come to refer to as a. "Daddy tax".
Now that I have decided to better defend myself and hold my ground on how we inter relate in business he is reacting by raging, threatening, now isolating me from himself and my 5 year old grand daughter.