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My mom was diagnosed stage 4 on feb 23 and she passed away on march 11

Posted by aprilnicole @aprilnicole, Mar 24, 2023

Im having a hard time with her primary care doctor not reading her symptoms and just brushing it off until it was too late. They never actually determined the main cause of the cancer as she was already to ill to perform anymore surgeries to figure it out. They are saying probly pancreatic but i dont belive it. She had an 11 cm tumor on her liver and in several other spots also.

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cindyc | @cindysummit | Feb 22 4:19pm

I am sorry for you both.

I lost my Mom during COVID. She got the fever April 1, 2020. The next day, she could not breathe and passed away in the early morning hours of April 3, 2020. She also had Her-2 breast cancer but that was under control, so to say.

It is still hard. In fact, it sucks.

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daughterwholoveshermomhelpinghertofightbileductcancer | @daughterwholoveshermomhelpinghertofightbileductcancer | Feb 23 7:47am

I'm sorry to hear that my mom is stage 4 cholangiocarcinoma bile duct cancer but she has started chemo and I pray it keeps her alive longer than it supposed to it's a rare and very aggressive cancer and also has spread to her abdomen but I just keep praying for her and telling her how strong and beautiful she is . If anyone knows more about cholangiocarcinoma bile duct cancer please I need as much info as possible thanks

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aprilnicole | @aprilnicole | Feb 23 8:57am

Im so sorry you have to go through this with your mom it it has been one year since i found out about my moms cancer.
There isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about her and the struggle.
Its an awful disease and i hope that the chemo will her your mom.
Talk to her as much as you can about making her comfortable about death and make yourself comfortable with it. Talk to her about signs she can leave you when she passes. If you want to talk shoot me a text i am in CT and i can tell you my experience i wish i had someone to talk about this that went through it then

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aprilnicole | @aprilnicole | Feb 23 8:57am
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@cindysummit

I am sorry for you both.

I lost my Mom during COVID. She got the fever April 1, 2020. The next day, she could not breathe and passed away in the early morning hours of April 3, 2020. She also had Her-2 breast cancer but that was under control, so to say.

It is still hard. In fact, it sucks.

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Im sorry Cindy 🙁

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aprilnicole | @aprilnicole | Feb 23 8:58am
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@hopeful2024

Dear Aprilnicole:
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom in such a short time.
It takes time to heal from the loss.
I lost my mother 5 years ago very quickly!!
The saving grace for us is to see our moms resting in peace and a hope to see them again!!
They loved us when they were on earth And continue to love us in peace!!
God keep you close to his heart!!
Hopeful 2024

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Thank you for the kind words . It has been one year and i feel safe knowing she is watching over me she leaves me signs everyday !

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