Managing Anxiety with an Aneurysm

Posted by pearl1714 @pear1714, Jun 10, 2025

Hi,
Last year I found out I have a Thoracic Aortic Aneurysm, I believe is a 4.5 so they just monitoring for now. I can said that’s so scary and I have a lot of questions but one is how you manage anxiety. I noticed I get a lot of anxiety and stress because I know so many things can happen. Can someone give me tips on how not to think on the Aneurysm and maybe try to live a normal life without being afraid all the time.

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I’m glad you are doing good after your aneurysm repair. I will start doing my homework and start looking for a Surgeon that specializes in TAA even though my cardiologist says I’m not there yet. I’m from Texas so the major center will be in Houston, San Antonio and Austin.

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@pear1714
What did your cardiologist mean by "not there yet"?
My cardiologist waited for over a year before telling me that I had an aortic problem.
Do these doctors just sit on the diagnosis until the patient gets so bad they can then refer us to a specialist? My cardiologist referred me to a thoracic surgeon and of course, I have open heart surgery in my future.

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I had a burst Abdominal Aortic Aneurysm in 2020. I had an EVAR procedure. All has been well, but I had to get a prescription for anxiety for obvious reasons. It really helps! Its called clonazepam. Talk to your Dr.!

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I had a burst Abdominal Aortic Aneurysm in 2020. I had an EVAR procedure. All has been well, but I had to get a prescription for anxiety for obvious reasons. It really helps! Its called clonazepam. Talk to your Dr.!

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@cyn22 I’m glad everything is well. My primary Doctor did end up getting something for me but I can remember the name. I’m doing much better trying too live one day at a time and enjoying every minute of it.

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@pear1714
What did your cardiologist mean by "not there yet"?
My cardiologist waited for over a year before telling me that I had an aortic problem.
Do these doctors just sit on the diagnosis until the patient gets so bad they can then refer us to a specialist? My cardiologist referred me to a thoracic surgeon and of course, I have open heart surgery in my future.

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@ewei6911 what he meant is that I was not to the point of Surgery. My aneurysm is still small no need to see a surgeon. Actually my primary doctor called me right away to let me know I had a Thoracic Aorta Aneurysm before the cardiologist found out. I don’t see that cardiologist anymore. Last year I started seeing a specialist that specializes on Aneurysm (Cardiologist) I feel more at ease with someone knows about aneurysms. Eventually I will need a surgeon but I trust that my cardiologist will refer me with someone that has experience with aneurysms

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@cyn22 I’m glad everything is well. My primary Doctor did end up getting something for me but I can remember the name. I’m doing much better trying too live one day at a time and enjoying every minute of it.

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@pear1714. Im happy to hear it! Best of luck to you and enjoy life!

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@houston13 it’s been awhile since this post but I wanted to thank you 🙏 I was able to see Dr. Prakash back in July last year and I love him. He gave me a bug peace of mind and actually my aneurysm was smaller than what they had told me here in McAllen. He really took the time to listen and explain everything to me and because I have a daughter he recommended a genetic test, just in case. I don’t have the gene so that was another peace of mind. I don’t have to be worrying about passing the gene to my daughter. He did recommend for her to start checking herself when she gets older just for precaution. Once again Thank you !

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@pear1714 forgot to comment that both of my sons also get checked (Prakash’s recommendation) mainly their brain through MRAs (I also had a brain aneurysm) they both got Echos a few years ago and they were cleared. They need to repeat it as they get older.

Glad to hear you’re doing well and things are working for you! All the best to you and your daughter.

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fearful anticipation could be worse than realizaion, every nervous fear is a unrealistic fear and neverous fear is the fear of discomfort, when an intruding thought enters into the brain we don't have to entertain it, we are a capable lot but we paralyze ourselves with needless fears, acccept or reject

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@flaxxy703 I feel exactly like you do. The thoughts are always there in my head but I’m trying to keep them at the forefront but is not working too well.!!!

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@pear1714 forgot to comment that both of my sons also get checked (Prakash’s recommendation) mainly their brain through MRAs (I also had a brain aneurysm) they both got Echos a few years ago and they were cleared. They need to repeat it as they get older.

Glad to hear you’re doing well and things are working for you! All the best to you and your daughter.

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@houston13 I hope you are doing well from your brain aneurysm. I really don’t understand why do we develop the aneurysms. Is it something we are doing or our body is just producing them. Is just so frustrating knowing that you have one and later on you get another one. Wish you the best and we are here for you.

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@houston13 I hope you are doing well from your brain aneurysm. I really don’t understand why do we develop the aneurysms. Is it something we are doing or our body is just producing them. Is just so frustrating knowing that you have one and later on you get another one. Wish you the best and we are here for you.

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@pear1714 that is a question a lot of people ask, including myself. As far as I know genetics may play a role, like potentially in my case, if you have a bicuspid aortic valve you’re also more susceptible to developing one (according to Prakash) also my case so double whammy, high BP for a long period of time may contribute too (not my case), beyond that who knows. I have known people that have developed aneurysms and are young and don’t have a history of any of the above.

I stopped trying to understand the why and focus on how to find out you have one before it becomes an emergency, especially with my family. I just try to take a positive attitude about knowing you have it and feel fortunate, a lot of people don’t get that opportunity. My son is a 4th year Med student and we were having that conversation yesterday, he is in his neurology rotation and is taking advantage of it to come up with the right answer about how often to get tested.

My brain aneurysm was repaired, thankfully it had vascular access so it was done via catheter, I get checked every 2 years and so far so good.

Thank you so much for your good wishes, and offer of support, all the best to you also!!!!

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@houston13 I hope you are doing well from your brain aneurysm. I really don’t understand why do we develop the aneurysms. Is it something we are doing or our body is just producing them. Is just so frustrating knowing that you have one and later on you get another one. Wish you the best and we are here for you.

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@pear1714
I have a 1 cm aneurysm in my splenic artery among other things. I just found out in 2025.
Never entertained that more may be coming. That is scary

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