I'm a human puzzle looking for answers
Hi, I'm Jera from Cleveland , TX & new to this forum. I'm 46 yrs old and have suffered for the last 7 years with no definitive diagnosis for all my crazy symptoms. I was given a diagnosis of fibromyalgia about 6 yrs ago. Intense all over body aches and pains, headaches, extreme fatigue, muscle weakness & loss of strength, major weight gain (I was 115 when I met my husband 8 yrs ago I'm now 150) which brings with it depression, anxiety, mood swings, etc. I used to work side by side next to my husband at our handyman service. I was strong, energetic, and fun! Now I barely leave our house. I hurt everyday. I was convinced I had MS but MRIs say otherwise. I've had the classic blood tests they order for autoimmune 6 times over the years and they have always been negative until about 4 months ago. My PCP ordered another round of labs and I showed positive ANA (no titer was given that I can see on my results) and I was barely positive for RNP (1.1). I scheduled with yet another rheumatologist and she ordered even more labs. This time my ANA was negative but still RNP positive (1.1) So as usual, I was dismissed and told to go see a dermatologist!? In the last year or so I've developed new symptoms that can't be ignored. Skin redness & discoloration, swollen puffy hands, red patches on my wrist & tops of my thighs like a severe sunburn, sun sensitivity and hive like rashes on my neck, chest and face when in the sun for even a moment, Reynauds. Heat flashes out of the blue, cold sweats, chills, heat intolerance..the list goes on & on. On my own, I research everything! MCTD is what I am convinced I'm dealing with. I know it's a difficult road when dealing with any AI condition. I am beyond frustrated that every single symptom I have all point to "something isn't right!" But I can't seem to get a diagnosis so I know what I'm facing in the next few years. If anyone can relate please share some insight. I'm so fed up with DR's!! Thank y'all!
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Good plan to see the neurologist. Autoimmunity inflammation can lead to autonomic neuropathy.
There is a good screening questionnaire online
COMPASS-31. Helps you inventory any autonomic dysfunction.
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3 Reactions@fedupintexas I have so many symptoms that my chart reads: dermatomyositis (I’m Tif-1 positive), RA (even though I don’t have a positive CCP but my RF is 80), Psoriatic Arthritis (as my big joints and muscles hurt), NR-Axial Spondyloarthritis (I have terrible lower sacral-iliac pain) - and since I’ve developed some new neurological symptoms - tremors and hyperreflexia - I noticed UCTD “undifferentiated connective tissue disease” has been added …
I have so many different symptoms I no longer fit into any tidy box that I’m in UCTD territory! I’m kinda fed up in NY too so I feel you! Don’t give up though. Keep looking for a doctor who listens. It took 4 rheumatologists to finally find a good one. She’s no longer interested in a label. She’s just looking for a drug or combination of drugs that treats my symptoms. She fights against the insurance companies to get me what I need and thinks outside the box.
When you’re not a straightforward patient - that’s what you need: an out of the box thinker. Hope you find some answers soon.
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5 Reactions@pm56 thank you! Wow, I'm sorry for all your going thru as well. I can relate so much! All these new neurological episodes appear like on 2 separate occasions about 6 mths apart I experienced excruciating burning, shock like sensations only on my right side of face, jaw, throat for over 4 hrs each time! It was absolutely horrible. From my research that is a very vital piece of info I need to share with neuro. Glad you found a good doc. I'll update ya when I find my fit! I know it's coming. I won't stop til I do. Thank you again!
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1 Reaction@momac59 thank you so much! I can so relate..so glad you got answers. All of this makes me feel more hopeful that I too will find my fit! Thanks so much!
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2 Reactions@fedupintexas me too - i had two episodes of burning stabbing pain on one side of my face. it turned out to be ideopathic trigeminal neuralgia. It’s usually connected to elderly people or those with MS. I was in my early thirties when it happened and I didn’t have MS.
I’m now dealing with one eye on the same side that repeatedly closes itself and the eyebrow is persistently raised - I look like I got my eyebrows done on skid row lol. The neurologist believed it was a hemifacial spasm - again often connected to those with MS, which apparently I still don’t have almost 30 years later - but the MRI caught a clot in the brain after my first round of IVIG so we can’t be sure if its just a random neurological thing or if it’s because of the clot.
Like you, I’m a puzzle of seemingly unconnected dots that no one can really make sense of. But look into Trigeminal Neuralgia and see if that sounds familiar. Keep us posted!
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1 ReactionI’m sorry you are going through this!
Do you have any symptoms of hyper mobility?
My long story short is I had a bad accident in 2007 - broken femur. For 18 years I’ve been trying to get well. Now I have finally been diagnosed with hEDS - a connective tissue disorder. This was about 5 years ago and I’m just now putting together the pieces!!!! Ugh so frustrating. But I have many of your symptoms and was super athletic. You may want to check out their website . And don’t stress too much - I just got a new autoimmune disorder last April - OLP its a nightmare- probably from stress.
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3 ReactionsDo you have been given a lot of good information by the people ahead of. There is one thing I think you need to check into and that is allergies or chemicals that can cause sensitivity to them. I am talking about perfumes, dies, and other chemicals that are in laundry soap, I was told bar soap only do not use liquid. A year ago I was fighting hives and they lasted around nine months until I figured out it was a calcium citrate. A doctor told me to use.. The first ingredient was some kind of syrup something I never heard of. Nine months later, I looked into it. It was a form of grain alcohol. I am highly allergic to grain alcohol and grain. Alcohol is in a lot of products you have to do your homework.
You are fortunate to have doctors who are listening to you. When I started developing fibromyalgia, no one knew what it was, and I was not treated very nice by family, friends and medical professionals over the years. Now they know, but I still have memories.
Do your homework look things up? Sometimes the smallest or simplest thing can have a great impact in one’s life. Also food, allergies as well.
Don’t give up be stubborn and come out fighting. It’s your life
And I wish you the very best and your struggles right now
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2 Reactions@minnesota10 I agree with you minnesota10, that's why my first thought was an immunologist - it's a combo specialty, allergy-immunology. Those docs are likely to order labs/tests that primary care and other specialty docs normally would not. I hope the OP will seek that consultation - it's a long frustrating diagnostic journey isn't it...
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1 Reaction@fairn
You just covered the labs that helped me solve my AI mystery after living with it 20 years!
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I'm glad you found these support groups and hope in time, you find you're less "fed up"! I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. Most of us with AI know how complicated it was to get a diagnosis, or in a lot of cases, several diagnoses. The supportive piece of all of this that I can offer is to tell you that even not knowing what your diagnosis is, you can still begin to live your life in new ways. Learning to go through changes doesn't end with having the name of the illness. It's up to you to find even one thing that brings you joy in a day. Your life has meaning and purpose even when you feel sick for days, weeks, years. Only you will know what this means to you. Looking forward to hearing more as you seek answers.
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