Does anyone feel old and useless with age?

Posted by sally12345 @sally12345, Sep 13, 2023

Hi, I'm almost 64.. I'm feeling old and useless. My strength isn't good anymore. Like it used to be mainly side effects of meds. My health is poor with cvsd. Osteoporosis, poor circulation, hearing , eyesight, you name it's going. I always took care of myself. Now I've gotten older and everything's wrong, my grandkids don't a want me around and they are little still. No friends to talk with or do things with. Why is it we spend our lifetime taking care of family. Loving friends to end up , old and tired. Useless.

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Tell me about it--74 and have same issues--although grandkids who live near me are adults they are same and my adult kids ? ppphhffft
Friends from long ago either deceased or 1/2 a couple & seem afraid to do anything without their "other"

I find gardening helps --a pet if you like an animal & dont travel much--and the old adage--volunteer where there are chatty people.
No one knows you are alone --its hard to start but only cure is to make yourself go where people are --talk to strangers ( in safe places)
Good Luck xxx
i'm in australia-same worldwide

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@karinkb

I am dealing with this daily at 71. After two years of constant medical problems I am very limited. I am working with a pschiatrist for meds and with a therapist; but, so far I still have suicidal ideation daily. I am tired of being so limited; but, I keep plugging along hoping it will get better.

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I am in a similar situation as you. The last two years have been terrible. I am now 78 and this has been the worst year of my life. I went off my antidepressant after 45 years (Effexor). I don’t even know what possessed me to do it. After numerous attempts to reinstate the Effexor (at least 4 times), I and my short-term therapists gave up. Every day is a struggle for me. I have aged terribly in these two years (wrinkled skin, hair loss). I lost 55 pounds in a matter of 3 months. My doctor described me as malnourished. I think I look like a monster. My best feature was always my curly strawberry blonde hair. It’s mostly gone now and I have resorted to wearing baseball caps. Sometimes I feel as if I can’t go on but I try because of financial reasons.

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