Caregiver/spouse of kidney recipient with personality change
I'm struggling due to the change of personality in my husband. He received a kidney transplant in October 2020. He has become full of rage and takes it all out on me and has become extremely difficult to be around. He blames me for all our marital issues, curses & yells at me, calls me "stupid", threatens me by saying he will tell his social worker that he feels unsafe at home and is becoming very controlling. His case is complex having a donor of a different blood type, mild rejection issues & treatments for those issues. He has been through a lot and with covid-19 it makes things even harder. I try to be a supportive caregiver, but I'm at my witts end. I've notified his doctors & social worker, but does not follow their suggestions. We also received some pastoral counsel. We even stay in separate rooms. Any suggestions on dealing with this?