Anyone Have A Negative Prostate Biopsy Due to BPH with a Lesion?

I go for my first prostate biopsy tomorrow and of course I am dreading it lol. Just looking for anything positive before I go. My prostate is huge 172cm and I have one PIRADS 3 lesion.

I have read everything prostate related for months. I have been on here for a month, mainly on the prostate cancer side. I can’t find one man of this site that has had a negative prostate biopsy that stayed that way for more than two years. It seems like once you have a prostate biopsy eventually it will show cancer. Seems like you are doomed once you have a biopsy.
So can anyone share anything positive lol. Where you had a lesion and it never turned into cancer and was due to having BPH.
THANKS