What are your tips for staying independent at your own home?

Posted by Colleen Young, Connect Director @colleenyoung, Aug 31, 2023

Many people say they’d prefer to grow old in their own homes. What are your tips for remaining independent as long as possible. What do you do to:
- Keep up with home maintenance and housekeeping?
- Avoid injuries around the house?
- Combat loneliness or stay connected?

Any other tips?

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Aging at home: Advice for staying independent

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mabfp3 | @mabfp3 | Sep 12, 2023

In reply to @thisismarilynb "I will be 89 years old in 16 days, yet I am still here. I sometimes..." + (show)

Good for you!!! That is wonderful! You are truly blessed! May you continue to live a healthy life!

thisismarilynb | @thisismarilynb | Sep 12, 2023

In reply to @merpreb "@thisismarilynb- And I don't blame you for staying put. Happy Birthday! Wow, 89years old and healthy...." + (show)

Thank you for your kind wishes.

thisismarilynb | @thisismarilynb | Sep 12, 2023

In reply to @mabfp3 "Good for you!!! That is wonderful! You are truly blessed! May you continue to live a..." + (show)

Thank you very much.

eva1930 | @eva1930 | Sep 13, 2023

I am 88 live alone, still drive, do my own banking, groceries, my only problem is that I am older than my friends I have had for years and they are still living at home alone but don’t go out much so I get very lonely as I don’t get many visitors or phone calls any more.

Funcountess | @funcountess | Sep 14, 2023

In reply to @eva1930 "I am 88 live alone, still drive, do my own banking, groceries, my only problem is..." + (show)

Hi,
Have you tried any hobbies.?
True, the older we get the less living friends we have.
It happens to everyone.
What about taking a class at a senior center?
Filling time can be difficult.
There is always volunteering, or baby sitting.

eva1930 | @eva1930 | Sep 14, 2023

Still trying to get involved in different activities

geyer | @geyer | Sep 14, 2023

In reply to @eva1930 "I am 88 live alone, still drive, do my own banking, groceries, my only problem is..." + (show)

If you enjoy playing cards or other games, check with some Community Centers in your area what activities they offer. I am in the same situation as you, but have my daughter living close by. I am 89, still driving and a widow since two years. I also enjoy playing card games online with friends or family.

eva1930 | @eva1930 | Sep 14, 2023

I think a lot of what I can still do is due to the fact my husband and I used to dance 3 times a week, I still do a exercise that covers all my body 3 times aweek, walk when I can and because i have kidney problems I watch my diet carefully. I just passed my driving test so i am good for another 2/years. I also think having a positive attitude also helps, I have a few health problems now but I take one day at a time and get the most out of every day I can,

swing | @swing | Sep 15, 2023

In reply to @eva1930 "I think a lot of what I can still do is due to the fact my..." + (show)

You are awesome!! I am 81 and love to dance as well, and it is the best endorphin high ! Sounds like you’re doing the best of everything for yourself to stay fit as a fiddle!

swing | @swing | Sep 15, 2023

Is anyone taking supplements or herbs to help with brain fog that you have found effective?

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