Living with Neuropathy - Welcome to the group

Welcome to the Neuropathy group.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet other people who are dealing with neuropathy. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with neuropathy, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

I’m Colleen, and I’m the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you’ll to be greeted by volunteer patient Mentor John (@johnbishop) and fellow members when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Mentors on Connect.

We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.
Let’s chat. Why not start by introducing yourself? What concerns would you like to talk about?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Neuropathy Support Group.

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I have a prescription for physical therapy. I had back surgery and the N.S. says that the numbness should go away months from now. I use the exercise bike for an hour and then Tai Chi and then walking down the hallway back and forth. Nor comfortable going alone outside I have in the past. Need to learn to go up and down stairs. After my first back surgery, my neighbor (no longer living here) walked with me outside and up and down stairs, every day. All one needs is one person, not really a physical threrapist. Must move on to Tai Chi now. I don't like to look at a computer screen.

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" I don't like to look at a computer screen."

That made me smile, Debbie. I, too, am a digital minimalist.

Have a good, good day, Debbie.

Ray (@ray666)

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Resilience is accepting your new reality, even if it’s less good than the one you had before. You can fight it, you can do nothing but scream about what you’ve lost, or you can accept that and try to put together something that’s good.
— Elizabeth Edwards, attorney and activist

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Just keep on going...exercising, moving, being with people (or one person), and you'll improve.

Barb

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" … but friends run away when they have to deal with mobility issues or other health issues."

That is too often true! I have to admit to once being that sort of friend. A person with whom I worked for many years and with whom I became very close (luckily, he still is my friend) has macular degeneration as well as other medical issues. He's in his late 80s, lives alone, and doesn't drive. A half dozen of us (his friends) took turns taking him to his doctors' appointments. One by one, they made excuses and stopped taking him. I was the last and soon found myself making excuses, too. I'm not proud of that but am grateful that was several years ago, and I'm no longer that way. It seems what happens is the friends begin to see only the disability and no longer the person. I wish there were a way to change people's way of seeing their ailing friends.

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@ray666, That is a very thoughtful and meaningful statement. I was taught that the reason people grow wary of seeing their friends ailing is first of all.....#1..the reality of not being able to help them. After that, #2 might be.....because it frightens them that they might end up the same way. I think I understand your interpretation that their wariness is because they see the disability and not the person. Practicing mindfulness will help folks be more non-judgemental and accepting.

May you have happiness and the causes of happiness.
Chris

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@ray666, That is a very thoughtful and meaningful statement. I was taught that the reason people grow wary of seeing their friends ailing is first of all.....#1..the reality of not being able to help them. After that, #2 might be.....because it frightens them that they might end up the same way. I think I understand your interpretation that their wariness is because they see the disability and not the person. Practicing mindfulness will help folks be more non-judgemental and accepting.

May you have happiness and the causes of happiness.
Chris

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Ah, yes, Chris, three cheers for mindfulness!
May I wish you, too, happiness and the causes of happiness. I hope we get to talk again in the coming days.
Ray

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new to the group, first post. I have had PN for about 2 years now and have mostly just lived with it. Have a decent neurologist, but he just says it does not get better, so live with it. I am wondering about the value of a getting second opinion from Mayo in phoenix. I also have a few other nerve issues such as dropfoot, a tremor, and long standing ADHD. Luckily, I had a terrific career working outdoors and almost perfect health till i turned 76. I get by on about 3- 100 mg doses of gabapentin weekly, when i need a little extra sleep. I do PTherapy and can still do cardio workouts on elliptical and bikes, but have pretty bad balance, especially on trails with inclines. Second opinion have any value??

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new to the group, first post. I have had PN for about 2 years now and have mostly just lived with it. Have a decent neurologist, but he just says it does not get better, so live with it. I am wondering about the value of a getting second opinion from Mayo in phoenix. I also have a few other nerve issues such as dropfoot, a tremor, and long standing ADHD. Luckily, I had a terrific career working outdoors and almost perfect health till i turned 76. I get by on about 3- 100 mg doses of gabapentin weekly, when i need a little extra sleep. I do PTherapy and can still do cardio workouts on elliptical and bikes, but have pretty bad balance, especially on trails with inclines. Second opinion have any value??

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Hello @gilamonster, Welcome to Connect. Wished I could answer your question but I honestly don't know if a second opinion would have any value for you. If it provides any answers you were looking for on quality of life, less pain or other questions you might have it may have value but I'm thinking it doesn't change the treatment unless you get a different diagnosis. That's just my non medical opinion. I have idiopathic small fiber peripheral neuropathy and posted my story in another discussion here - https://connect.mayoclinic.org/comment/310341/.

I have similar concerns at my age of 80, balance not too hot, can't walk very far due to lower back issues and forward leaning. I do exercise a lot at home on an elliptical recumbent bike along with a rowing machine. Fortunately I don't take any meds for my neuropathy since I only have the numbness and some tingling which there isn't any type of medication that helps with that.

The Foundation for Peripheral Neuropathy has some information on living well with neuropathy along with a list of alternative and complementary treatments that some people have found helpful. They also have a lot of webinar videos on their website that are great for learning more -- https://www.foundationforpn.org/living-well/.

You mentioned having PN for about 2 years. Is that when the symptoms started? Did you have any testing done when you were diagnosed - skin punch biopsy, EMG, etc?

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new to the group, first post. I have had PN for about 2 years now and have mostly just lived with it. Have a decent neurologist, but he just says it does not get better, so live with it. I am wondering about the value of a getting second opinion from Mayo in phoenix. I also have a few other nerve issues such as dropfoot, a tremor, and long standing ADHD. Luckily, I had a terrific career working outdoors and almost perfect health till i turned 76. I get by on about 3- 100 mg doses of gabapentin weekly, when i need a little extra sleep. I do PTherapy and can still do cardio workouts on elliptical and bikes, but have pretty bad balance, especially on trails with inclines. Second opinion have any value??

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@gilamonster I’ve had PN for about 8 years. My neurologist diagnosed it as small fiber, but it has since changed to large fiber. It doesn’t seem different but I am having issues with it progressing. Both my feet have numb areas. I feel like I’m walking on potatoes!

You are taking the medicine, I can’t because it makes me very tired. There’s no cure, so I have to try to keep going no matter.

I don’t think going to Mayo is necessary. First, they are usually booked up, and they prefer patients that don’t already have a diagnosis. (my experience). Mayo Phoenix/Scottsdale is tough. I’ve been blessed with a rare disease and was able to get to see Mayo providers.

From one desert dweller to another, stay cool out there! 🌵

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I have been diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy which is located in my toes and balls of my feet. It is not painful except at night sometimes. I am not
diabetic but have a consistent high glucose level. I have noticed lately that my toes are starting to curl more inward which concerns me. I am a 77 year old female in good health. I have read some of the issues others have and my situation is very mild in comparison and I would like to keep it that way. I did go see a Doctor and he told me to stop drinking (2 drinks /night) which I did recently .

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I have been diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy which is located in my toes and balls of my feet. It is not painful except at night sometimes. I am not
diabetic but have a consistent high glucose level. I have noticed lately that my toes are starting to curl more inward which concerns me. I am a 77 year old female in good health. I have read some of the issues others have and my situation is very mild in comparison and I would like to keep it that way. I did go see a Doctor and he told me to stop drinking (2 drinks /night) which I did recently .

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Hello @redbetz, Welcome to Connect. You are not alone in your neuropathy journey. Sleeping can be painful for many with any type of neuropathy. You might find the following discussion where others with neuropathy pain at night have shared their experience helpful.

--- Neuropathy Pain at Night: What helps?: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/night-pain-2/.

One thing that helped me was reading a lot about my condition and treatments and therapies that have been found helpful for others. The Foundation for Neuropathy is a great source for learning more about neuropathy and what helps - https://www.foundationforpn.org/living-well/.

Have you looked into any alternative or complementary treatments for neuropathy?

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