A Summary of My Multiple Myeloma

Posted by Heather McFarland @heathermcfarland, Jul 28, 2023

Diagnosis

I was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma on Sept 28, 2022 (age 53). My diagnosis was a result of visiting my general practitioner for the first time post-covid complaining of general fatigue (shortness of breath and high heart rate when exerting). I had been trying to get into hiking shape all summer and wasn't making my usual progress. Given headlines in the news I was self-diagnosing myself with long covid. My doctor suggested that we do a blood panel since it had been a while since we had done one. The panel came back with abnormalities including the fact that I was very anemic (thus the fatigue) and she suggested that she share the results with an oncologist colleague to get her input. The oncologist asked that I come in the following week (not a great sign). And before my visit, through the beauty of Google, using my blood work results, I had narrowed it down to either Multiple Myeloma or Lymphoma. I wouldn't recommend going that route as it's a lot to stew on by yourself… My biggest takeaway is that my gp deserves an award! I've since read many accounts of people who aren't diagnosed for months or even years. I got a jump on it due to her diligence!

Initial Treatment

I was treated at St Vincent (Providence) in Portland, OR from October - February which included weekly visits to get lenalidomide, dexamethasone, daratumumab and also took (oral) revlimid at home. Treatment was fairly well tolerated with my main symptom being brain fog and fatigue. Treatment was successful bringing my Myeloma numbers down significantly. At the time of diagnosis, I had a few small 'shadows' of bone deterioration on my vertebrae that disappeared after the initial treatment.

Autologous Transplant

I had my transplant at OHSU in Portland, OR on March 15th. The prep started on March 4th with self-injections of Zarxio to promote stem cell generation, on March 7th had the trifusion catheter placed in my chest, and then 5 hours of harvesting on March 8th (got enough for 2 transplants in one go). On March 14th I had the first of two chemo (Melphalin) infusions as an outpatient and then on March 15h I had the second dose and was admitted for 16 days.

My main side effects while in the hospital post-treatment were major nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Needless to say, my GI did not like Melphalin. I lost about 20 lbs and wasn't able to keep food down for weeks. I had sucked on popsicles while getting Melphalin and I didn't get mouth sores. The first few days in the hospital I experienced major anxiety while waiting for the chemo symptoms to arrive. I don't love hospitals and I think the isolation and anticipation of side effects all contributed to my severe reaction. This took me by surprise since up to this point I had been able to take the diagnosis and initial treatment in stride and be fairly optimistic. I credit family and friends who visited and kept me distracted (thank goodness for March Madness!) as well as the very thoughtful and capable staff at OHSU (and some good anxiety drugs) for helping me get through that experience.

Post Transplant

Home again! Nothing like that feeling… The first 30 days at home being immunocompromised meant that there was very little that I could do by myself but I was very lucky to have 3 caregivers who stayed with me for that time to share in cleaning, pet care, gardening, food prep along with monitoring my condition, taking me to appointments etc... They managed to share the load such that they were able to keep a fairly normal remote work schedule as well as care for me and keep the house running. Part of taking care of the caregivers included having another friend volunteer to coordinate a Meal Train to deliver food periodically for them while they prepared my food under strict guidelines. I didn't have any particular complications with recovery. My appetite was very slow to return. My GI took months to recover and my sense of taste is still a bit affected four months later. My brain fog has continued to improve (especially being challenged as I'm back at work) but I can tell that my memory - specifically my ability to recall words, names etc… in the moment - hasn't fully recovered.

The exciting part is that it worked! After 3 months we rebase-lined (bone marrow biopsy, PET scan, blood work) and I'm officially in remission with no detectable cancer. It's been 4.5 months and I feel great. I'm back to an active lifestyle and back in the garden (it was very hard to be away from that for 3 months, in the spring no less).

Maintenance

I started a low dose of Revlimid (10 mg) at the beginning of July and am tolerating it well (I think I might have minor mouth sores related to it but so far that's all that I've really noticed). I will check in with my oncologist monthly for the foreseeable future.

Gratitude

I am the luckiest unlucky person I know. I have had amazing support from friends, family and medical professionals. I am privileged and have access to excellent healthcare (local experts and heath insurance covered by my employer). I had access to short and long term disability allowing me to be away from work without financial impact. I am young for this diagnosis and healthy otherwise without comorbidities. I have this disease at a time when medical research is at its height and am very optimistic about its future - go science! And given that this disease is twice as common and twice as deadly in underserved populations I'm focused on using my privilege for advocacy going forward. My thoughts go out to all of my fellow patients, hoping for some measure of the support that I've received.

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@loribmt Thanks for the reach out. I truly do not know how to answer your question "How has your recovery been?" I have nothing to compare it to. The best I can do is say to you what I have said to all my friends and family when they have asked that same question for the past two years and that is I feel fine, I am well. If it weren't for a Doctor telling me that I am sick, I would never have known it. That is not to say I didn't have any issues, I did. But what ever they were I was told by my oncologist or the P.A's that they would resolve themselves in a month or two, which they did. The biggest issue I have now 21 months post transplant and trust me I understand it sounds a little petty, is the struggle of low energy and low stamina and the Boom and Bust of an energy burst. I have an idea of how fortunate I am. Most people diagnosed with T-PLL never make to the transplant stage. As far as Graft Host Disease it has not been a problem so far.

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@2024fightthefight Your recovery sounds on par with the rest of us who have had a bone marrow transplant. Energy and stamina can ebb and flow. In the first couple of years post transplant I often referred to my energy as that of a puppy. It would come in bursts and I felt I could move mountains for a few days and then, plop…I was wanting to rest on the sofa with a good book for several days. There are adaptations for sure but without the transplant the alternative wasn’t very positive. Happy to hear you’re doing well with no GVHD.

At this point you shouldn’t even be considered ‘sick’. ☺️ Generally speaking, after our transplant, if we go 22 months without a recurrence, statistically the odds of a relapse drop dramatically. Those were mentally liberating words from my transplant team! So if you’re feeling fine, I’d take that as a huge win and keep enjoying your second life to the fullest!

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1st time post. Found out in May 2024 that I have T-Pll, was lucky enough to get the transplant in October of 2024 and am now 21 months post transplant. Wondering who else is out there.

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@2024fightthefight
👋 Hello!!
I have TPLL and am currently on Campath infusions - week 3.
Last week, the stem cell transplant coordinator came to visit me during my infusion to discuss a Allogenic stem cell transplant when I finish my Campath treatment. At first I was excited about this option, but after reading all the information in the stem cell transplant booklet, I am concerned. How long will I be sick? I am a very active person and the idea of weeks, months or years of being sick does not seem like a positive outcome.
Any thoughts?
Thanks,
Sheila (72 yrs)

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@2024fightthefight
👋 Hello!!
I have TPLL and am currently on Campath infusions - week 3.
Last week, the stem cell transplant coordinator came to visit me during my infusion to discuss a Allogenic stem cell transplant when I finish my Campath treatment. At first I was excited about this option, but after reading all the information in the stem cell transplant booklet, I am concerned. How long will I be sick? I am a very active person and the idea of weeks, months or years of being sick does not seem like a positive outcome.
Any thoughts?
Thanks,
Sheila (72 yrs)

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@saga2
Shelia Hi! My name is Stu (70yrs) your question "How long will I be sick? I am a very active person and the idea of weeks, months or years of being sick does not seem like a positive outcome." Shelia, from what ever research I have done and have been told by my transplant team, I had two choices do everything I was told to do by the transplant team or die. I chose Life or at least in our case, the best opportunity for life and that's the transplant. I know that was pretty blunt but the bright side is you have hope if you want it. As I wrote in my post I'm at 21 months post transplant, wasn't sure I'd get this far and I'd bet I had every fear and uncertainty you are having. But the one thing you have that I never had was some one else to talk to that has T-PLL. Thanks for the reach out, you have no idea how much it is appreciated. We are not alone.

So fight the fight one day at a time. Feel free to reach out any time you need. You have one more friend pulling for you. Oh ya, as far as chempath, I don't know about how it works for you but when I was doing chempath they started it with 50 mg of Benadryl, that kicked my butt. After they reduced it to 25mg along with anti-nausea meds it was a breeze a 2 hour nap and then the ride home. You will get through this, keep the faith.

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@saga2
Shelia Hi! My name is Stu (70yrs) your question "How long will I be sick? I am a very active person and the idea of weeks, months or years of being sick does not seem like a positive outcome." Shelia, from what ever research I have done and have been told by my transplant team, I had two choices do everything I was told to do by the transplant team or die. I chose Life or at least in our case, the best opportunity for life and that's the transplant. I know that was pretty blunt but the bright side is you have hope if you want it. As I wrote in my post I'm at 21 months post transplant, wasn't sure I'd get this far and I'd bet I had every fear and uncertainty you are having. But the one thing you have that I never had was some one else to talk to that has T-PLL. Thanks for the reach out, you have no idea how much it is appreciated. We are not alone.

So fight the fight one day at a time. Feel free to reach out any time you need. You have one more friend pulling for you. Oh ya, as far as chempath, I don't know about how it works for you but when I was doing chempath they started it with 50 mg of Benadryl, that kicked my butt. After they reduced it to 25mg along with anti-nausea meds it was a breeze a 2 hour nap and then the ride home. You will get through this, keep the faith.

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@2024fightthefight
Hi Stu! So nice to meet someone else that has TPLL.
My doctor believes that I have had it since January 2025. But I was officially diagnosed in August 2025.
I have noticed that my energy level has dropped since I was taken off steroids as part of the pre-Campath cocktail in week two.
I am curious, when did you get the Benadryl cut in half? I think I may need to ask my doctor about doing that.
I am impressed with your remission results- 21 months! That’s awesome 👏.
Warmly, Sheila

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@2024fightthefight
Hi Stu! So nice to meet someone else that has TPLL.
My doctor believes that I have had it since January 2025. But I was officially diagnosed in August 2025.
I have noticed that my energy level has dropped since I was taken off steroids as part of the pre-Campath cocktail in week two.
I am curious, when did you get the Benadryl cut in half? I think I may need to ask my doctor about doing that.
I am impressed with your remission results- 21 months! That’s awesome 👏.
Warmly, Sheila

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@saga2
Shelia great to hear from you.
Well Shelia got to tell you, the 21 months of remission isn't anything I did. It is completely due the incredible transplant team I was assigned to. From day one the experience could not have been better.
Now as to the Benadryl, I believe it was changed in week three. I would offer to you, ANY TIME if something does not feel right, there is a pain or soreness let your care staff know right away. They can not read your mind. There is nothing too little not to bring up. What you think is minor to you may be major to them.
Good luck in your Chempath, not that you will need it, something tells me you are going to sail through it.
Remember "Fight the Fight"
Stu

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