Has any man in the group experienced this?

WOW for me that depends how long an how close friends you are. if I felt uncomfortable give him the boot or I would let him know that as far as it Goes

@newrochelle1131 I would gently tell him that I appreciate his feelings, but that I am straight. I do not share his feelings.

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Please elaborate on “crazy feelings”

I hate to say this, but the fact that you don't know the answer to that speaks volumes.

Have them define 'crazy' and then make a decision.

How do you feel? If a woman were to express her feelings how would you respond? If you don’t have feelings then tell him gently you don’t have the same feelings. I assume if it were a woman you weren’t attracted to you’d do the same. Be kind. It takes a lot of guts to tell someone how you feel about them. It’s more than just sex.

It’s funny how different posters presume the sex of the other person because you don’t tell us. It could be a very close female friend you’ve always thought of as just a buddy or an old male friend who just shocked the shit out of you. We don’t know! So to speculate on my part makes no sense.
If this is someone whom you’ve known for some time and shared many secretes with you may wish to keep this friend. You need to explain how you view this person in your life and how different that would be for you. Good luck

Wise and prudent.
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