Glioblastoma with gross total resection.

Posted by courageandgrace @courageandgrace, Nov 13, 2025

My husband, 54 years old. He had approx. 12 minute seizure on Sept. 10. They did a CT scan and said that they felt he had a meningioma and it was 100% treatable. He should see his doctor the next day and they should do an MRI just to be sure. The MRI was completed and they told us that they felt he had a high grade glioma. Before that day, there was no indication of anything wrong with him. He had a 2 x 2 x 2 gross total resection on Oct. 3 to his right temporal lobe and they were able to take 1 inch margins around that as well. His tumor had grown 30% in three weeks. It was confirmed that he has glioblastoma. They were able to take 1 inch margins around it. To look at him, you would never know he had surgery. Physically, he is fine. Emotionally though, I notice he is having trouble regulating his emotions with me, especially when he is nervous or anxious about something. Any suggestions or help would be great. Also, any in general things that have helped you as the care provider deal with this emotionally. It’s a lot to be this young and think about all the possibilities. Plus my husband owns his own business and I have that all on my mind as well.

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as we see in our son who also has giioblastoma there are changes in the personality and the fact they have a death sentence since this cancer is not curable.

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Profile picture for Randy Shields @randallshields56

welcome to the group, there are a lot of great people here and the support is crazy good. as to the over the top thinking the Zoloft works for some , i am not a doctor just a patient , long story short i had a TBI traumatic brain injury, a tumor in the brain and just under the glioblastoma category.
side effects differ from patient to patient, my operation was because mine forced me to get emergency treatment i.e. surgery and mine was shall we say a bit more extensive in that i had more treatments ahead of me. the radiation went spot on and chemo was well a back up plan.
eventually things settle down and you can get into support groups that are pretty awesome. the actual reason i said anything is you need three things, something to live and fight for, mine is my daughters, second if you believe in god, get some prayer groups going they help immensely and last stay in good shape to beat the odds and it also helps with depression setting goals. i hope ypu found something I've said helpful. have a awesome day.

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glad you found something helpful or even useful, so i am headed to bed
shortly , cant drink or eat after midnight. testing tomorrow.
brain scan- lung and abdomen and pelvis

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Profile picture for Randy Shields @randallshields56

welcome to the group, there are a lot of great people here and the support is crazy good. as to the over the top thinking the Zoloft works for some , i am not a doctor just a patient , long story short i had a TBI traumatic brain injury, a tumor in the brain and just under the glioblastoma category.
side effects differ from patient to patient, my operation was because mine forced me to get emergency treatment i.e. surgery and mine was shall we say a bit more extensive in that i had more treatments ahead of me. the radiation went spot on and chemo was well a back up plan.
eventually things settle down and you can get into support groups that are pretty awesome. the actual reason i said anything is you need three things, something to live and fight for, mine is my daughters, second if you believe in god, get some prayer groups going they help immensely and last stay in good shape to beat the odds and it also helps with depression setting goals. i hope ypu found something I've said helpful. have a awesome day.

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thank you for the helpful and have a blessed evening and god bless

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Emotional support is the best advice I can give! Try to help with any physical limitations, but, importantly, positive emotional support, and tender care is what is needed, when one is diagnosed with such a dreaded brain disorder! Patience is a virtue, and a helpful, steady nature, is needed for the caregivers, of a person who has gotten such a tough diagnosis! Wishing you both the best! ( I’ve been a caregiver for 30 years, and am just sharing what has helped me and my wife the most! )

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I’m 59 years old, and I have glioblastoma. It was very hard to learn that I might die . I had the tumor taken out. ( it was over 6cm) I’m taking oral chemo drug and I have 4 radiation left. (Total 30 radiation. Almost done. ) next MRI in a month and a half, to see if the tumor is gone, or back. The hard thing is that we take anti seizure medicine, and it has side effects, like depression and anxiety and all kinds of negative thoughts, at the time, when positive thinking and happiness would help with recovery.

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I i've just gone through six weeks of chemo and radiation for my glioblastoma. Not much side effects with the treatment until the last two weeks when I was overly tired. In the new year, I'll be doing the op tune and going to Germany for immunotherapy. For the anxiety, I started taking low-dose Zoloft, which helped me regulate my emotions with no residual effects. I don't think I could've made it without some kind of anxiety met. Good luck in the future God bless!

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@tarheelchuck keep up the good fight and saying a prayer for you. have a blessed day too=================================prayer sent.

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Profile picture for Randy Shields @randallshields56

@tarheelchuck keep up the good fight and saying a prayer for you. have a blessed day too=================================prayer sent.

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thank you 72. helps. they always do. hVE great weekend.

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glad you found something helpful or even useful, so i am headed to bed
shortly , cant drink or eat after midnight. testing tomorrow.
brain scan- lung and abdomen and pelvis

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thankyou 72 and i will keep fighting. even with the bad news on tests, just
going to make me work a little bit harder. have a blessed day and weekend.

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I’m 59 years old, and I have glioblastoma. It was very hard to learn that I might die . I had the tumor taken out. ( it was over 6cm) I’m taking oral chemo drug and I have 4 radiation left. (Total 30 radiation. Almost done. ) next MRI in a month and a half, to see if the tumor is gone, or back. The hard thing is that we take anti seizure medicine, and it has side effects, like depression and anxiety and all kinds of negative thoughts, at the time, when positive thinking and happiness would help with recovery.

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@borbala. My husband passed away in 2022 from GBM. He was 76. I have always thought GBM was a death sentence and to most it is. But last year I met someone who was 61 and got GBM at age 45. It was amazing. He was perfectly normal. He had never missed a day of work and had the tumor removed very early and did the treatments and is still working to this day. So there is hope. I wish you the best.

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@borbala. My husband passed away in 2022 from GBM. He was 76. I have always thought GBM was a death sentence and to most it is. But last year I met someone who was 61 and got GBM at age 45. It was amazing. He was perfectly normal. He had never missed a day of work and had the tumor removed very early and did the treatments and is still working to this day. So there is hope. I wish you the best.

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@kylebar thank you so much for giving me hope.
God bless you.

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