Living with Neuropathy - Welcome to the group

Welcome to the Neuropathy group.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet other people who are dealing with neuropathy. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with neuropathy, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

I’m Colleen, and I’m the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you’ll to be greeted by volunteer patient Mentor John (@johnbishop) and fellow members when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Mentors on Connect.

We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.
Let’s chat. Why not start by introducing yourself? What concerns would you like to talk about?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Neuropathy Support Group.

@cinnspice44

Hi kpotter62, I'm also new to the group. I'm also 80 years old and dealing with exactly the same thing that you're going through. I have it for maybe over 20 years. Nothing has worked for me and I've tried all the things. Gabapentin different creams duloxetine all other antidepressants. Nothing has worked. Went to neurologist. Put me through tests. Said there's nothing they can do. Well I ended up going to Mayo clinic about 10 days ago and went through a battery of tests. I think they said there was 60 all together. What's blood work and everything? And they said that I do have a few like a small fiber on neuropathy and guess what? There's nothing to do for it. I went there full of Hope. Thought for sure they would be able to cure my feet. My feet are totally dead but I do have sharp shooting pains all the time. I went through the burning and the feeling of bugs crawling up my legs and then my feet felt like I was walking on golf balls or hard rocks. I've had everything you can imagine and now I'm going through where my left leg will suddenly feel like I have a magnet in my left leg and it's being pulled to my right leg. It doesn't actually pull but it feels like it. It's a very strange feeling. I fought off using a walker for all these years but my balance now has gotten so bad. I can't trust only in the house. I can walk without a walker as the Mayo clinic said I sort of couch surf now. The clinic was a wonderful experience with wonderful doctors and nurses and staff. I couldn't have been treated any better. I'm very happy I went. It was quite the experience and I feel comfortable now knowing from the specialist that there's nothing they can do. I've accepted it now, but I'll tell you the pain is terrible, especially at night. I don't sleep well anymore. I wake up quite often now and stay awake, play on my phone, etc. My heart goes out to all of you suffering, the way that I know you have been. The clinic told me that pretty soon my feet would be totally dead and then I wouldn't have to worry about the pain anymore except for then. It's not good because there's nothing under your feet. It feels like cuz they're just like you had one legs or something. I know I'm not explaining myself very well, but I'd be happy to answer anybody's questions if you have any. God bless you all and thanks for listening

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Well, we speak the same language, because I understood it all. I remember having the ‘rocks’ in my shoes. Seems like 3-4 years ago. And, not sure if I had socks on or not. Then weird sensations in my feet and ankles at night, starting about a year ago. This summer, I didn’t feel balanced when I walked. Bought Hoka shoes. Helped until it didn’t. And, now numbness in both feet, left foot worse; don’t feel anything under that foot at times. Started with my primary doctor. She said take B12. Got a a bit worse and got a referral for neuro. Blood work and nothing to be done. Cannot cure numbness. Gave me lopoic acid. I started using a cane about 2 weeks ago. Still slip-sliding away. Last week, a podiatrist took a look at the feet, a few questions, a quick poke with a pointed tool, and said nothing to be done. He said I should not have let myself become dependent on the cane. 🤔 I slipped several times getting into the building, with the cane. And, today I just put two walkers together. Much safer feeling, legs still feel heavy but moving better and faster. Left foot feels stuck, when I can actually feel it, and stays a bit behind. The stairs are a nightmare and I’m getting myself together to just move downstairs. Getting up and down the stairs, hardest part of my day. I’m sorry to hear you have pain. I have been reading people are given gabapentin and it does not work for most. I haven’t read too much that’s encouraging, but I am taking the supplements. Adding B6 and B-complex per podiatrist. Haven’t been on anything long enough to gage if it helps. What has helped a bit….I do use a foot massage machine and a recumbent bike. Massage my feet with lotion with menthol. Wear my old Sketcher's inside the house now. I haven’t had any pain really. Except for the ‘rocks’, I just went right into numbness and quickly needing a cane. I haven't really accepted it, because the numbness progressed so fast. I can drive. Right foot is much better. Just cannot get out like before. Maybe I’ll try once I break in the walkers.
I hope you can continue to move a bit with a walker. I’ve ordered a portable elliptical machine, to pedal from the couch. Ha! Anything that makes the blood flow. I come on here a bit everyday. Only people who understand what we are going through. Best wishes to you and thanks for sharing.

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@cinnspice44

Hi kpotter62, I'm also new to the group. I'm also 80 years old and dealing with exactly the same thing that you're going through. I have it for maybe over 20 years. Nothing has worked for me and I've tried all the things. Gabapentin different creams duloxetine all other antidepressants. Nothing has worked. Went to neurologist. Put me through tests. Said there's nothing they can do. Well I ended up going to Mayo clinic about 10 days ago and went through a battery of tests. I think they said there was 60 all together. What's blood work and everything? And they said that I do have a few like a small fiber on neuropathy and guess what? There's nothing to do for it. I went there full of Hope. Thought for sure they would be able to cure my feet. My feet are totally dead but I do have sharp shooting pains all the time. I went through the burning and the feeling of bugs crawling up my legs and then my feet felt like I was walking on golf balls or hard rocks. I've had everything you can imagine and now I'm going through where my left leg will suddenly feel like I have a magnet in my left leg and it's being pulled to my right leg. It doesn't actually pull but it feels like it. It's a very strange feeling. I fought off using a walker for all these years but my balance now has gotten so bad. I can't trust only in the house. I can walk without a walker as the Mayo clinic said I sort of couch surf now. The clinic was a wonderful experience with wonderful doctors and nurses and staff. I couldn't have been treated any better. I'm very happy I went. It was quite the experience and I feel comfortable now knowing from the specialist that there's nothing they can do. I've accepted it now, but I'll tell you the pain is terrible, especially at night. I don't sleep well anymore. I wake up quite often now and stay awake, play on my phone, etc. My heart goes out to all of you suffering, the way that I know you have been. The clinic told me that pretty soon my feet would be totally dead and then I wouldn't have to worry about the pain anymore except for then. It's not good because there's nothing under your feet. It feels like cuz they're just like you had one legs or something. I know I'm not explaining myself very well, but I'd be happy to answer anybody's questions if you have any. God bless you all and thanks for listening

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Did you try gabapentin for the pain? I take 2400 mg per day.

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@lamkj5

Did you try gabapentin for the pain? I take 2400 mg per day.

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Hello Cody Potter 62 as to your question, do I take gabapentin for the pain? Yes, I've only been taking 600 milligrams because I have third stage kidney disease so I was told that's all I could take. But then I went to the Mayo clinic and they said I could take 12 to 1400. So I'm increasing slowly now. I sure hope that helps. Is the amount that you're taking working for you? Thanks for your reply, carolyn

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@lamkj5

Did you try gabapentin for the pain? I take 2400 mg per day.

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Lamkj5 I'm sorry I responded to someone else as a mistake. I'm so new with this. I don't know if I'm going to get the hang of it or not. You would ask me if I take gabapentin and my reply was to someone else. I'm sorry but what I was trying to say is yes but I have third stage kidney disease so I was told I could only take 600 MG but after visiting the Mayo clinic they told me I could take 12 to 14. Thank you for responding. It's interesting to me that you can take that amount. How high can you go on gabapentin do you know? Is the amount you are taking working for you. What kind of symptoms do you have and how long have you had it? Sorry about the mix-up, sending it to the wrong person. If I keep practicing I may get it right. LOL carolyn

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@cinnspice44

Hello Cody Potter 62 as to your question, do I take gabapentin for the pain? Yes, I've only been taking 600 milligrams because I have third stage kidney disease so I was told that's all I could take. But then I went to the Mayo clinic and they said I could take 12 to 1400. So I'm increasing slowly now. I sure hope that helps. Is the amount that you're taking working for you? Thanks for your reply, carolyn

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I take 800 mg every 8 hours. It works pretty well but my feet definitely are not perfect. I think the gabapentin has caused my imbalance but I can’t do without it. I wish you good luck and blessings as you travel this rocky road.
All the best,
Bonnie

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@marthadean

I have not explored taking Vitamin B12 but many swear that it is life changing. Ask your health care giver if that would help you

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Hi, yes Mayo clinic just had me start on B12. Hopefully I have good luck with it. Thank you for letting me know. Good luck to you and keep on moving. God bless you

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for years I have been under the impression that that compression socks are helpful with neuropathy. do other people use them? My feet seem to disappear, have less feeling when I wear the sox. does the compression restrict blood flow? nerve stimulation?

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@nekcarolyn

for years I have been under the impression that that compression socks are helpful with neuropathy. do other people use them? My feet seem to disappear, have less feeling when I wear the sox. does the compression restrict blood flow? nerve stimulation?

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Hi @nekcarolyn, I've had neuropathy (numbness only, no pain) for 40+ years but only bothered to get diagnosed in 2016 because all of my previous docs had said there aren't any treatments for the numbness, only the pain. In 2018 I was diagnosed with lymphedema and had to start wearing compression socks to control the daytime swelling in the legs. The compression socks sometimes help me forget I have neuropathy because they have the constant squeeze on my legs but I don't thing they actually help my neuropathy. You might want to scan through the following discussion to see what other members have shared on the question:

-- Neuropathy - Do Compression Stockings Help?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/neuropathy-25/

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I am 84 years old and have had neuropathy for many years before I knew what it was. I have borderline type 2 diabetes which did not cause the neuropathy burttmay have worsened it. Has anyone found anything that helps?
There is no doctor that specializes in this in my area. The only thing my doctors have offered is gabapentin or pregabilin; I take 900mg gabapentin & it is not keeping the pain under control.

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@lakelariet

I am 84 years old and have had neuropathy for many years before I knew what it was. I have borderline type 2 diabetes which did not cause the neuropathy burttmay have worsened it. Has anyone found anything that helps?
There is no doctor that specializes in this in my area. The only thing my doctors have offered is gabapentin or pregabilin; I take 900mg gabapentin & it is not keeping the pain under control.

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Welcome @lakelariet, The Foundation for Peripheral Neuropathy has a pretty comprehensive collection of neuropathy treatments including the traditional drugs, complementary and alternative along with a list of supplements which have shown to help with neuropathy for some folks - https://www.foundationforpn.org/therapies/.

You might also find it helpful to scan through the list of discussions in the Neuropathy Support Group. Here's a link to the list of discussions - https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/neuropathy/.

I did a search of the discussions using "neuropathy what helps" if you want to look through these specific discussions - https://connect.mayoclinic.org/search/discussions/?search=neuropathy%20what%20helps.

I'm soon to be 82 and I think it really helps each of us to learn as much as we can about the neuropathy condition and what treatments are available. I've always been labelled as pre-diabetic and do think it has played a part in my neuropathy even though my diagnosis is idiopathic small fiber peripheral neuropathy.

Do you mind sharing your symptoms that bother you the most?

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