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Organ Donation and Transplant: What is Your story?
Every transplant patient has a unique story to tell. Let's create this place to share our stories. By sharing, we can meet others like us, we can encourage people who are at the beginning of their journey, and we can support those who are on the waiting list.
Here are some questions for you to consider as you write your story:
– Focus on yourself and how you felt, what you did, who helped you.
– How did you find out that you would need an organ transplant?
– What was the waiting and recovery like for you?
– How has your life changed since your transplant?
Organ donation and transplant is a very personal. To respect the privacy of all be sure to have permission before sharing identifying details about others involved in your story, for example
– your donor/recipient (age, circumstances of death, etc)
– your caregiver or family members (say "my husband", rather than using a full name)
What is your transplant story?
Note: If you want to ask a question for another member who has posted their transplant story here in this discussion, be sure to add their @membername in your post, for example @rosemarya. Your question may already be discussed in other transplant discussions. Be sure to check here first: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/transplants/ That way this discussion can be reserved for member transplant stories and hopefully make it easier to read and find similar symptoms to your own.
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Hi, Ginger. I absolutely understand why your husband named his kidney Kermit, based on the meaning of that name. I was never on dialysis but based on what I know about it from people who are on it, the name Kermit perfectly describes your husband after over 5 years on it. I rejoice with him (and with you) that he's now literally a "free man." I can only imagine the depth of his joy. Congrats on his recent 8 year transplantversary! 👍😊
Tif
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Oh, Scott, I am so glad that you found out about your donor and have been able to rename your new heart James. I read how you had so very much wanted to find out his name and identify with him. Congrats!
I can see that James has been good to you: 32,000 steps a day...weekly basketball games. Wow! That's fantastic! And I love how you thank James.
I think it's great that you organized the "ancient athletes league." The name makes me think of a slow pitch softball team here called the Huff-N-Puffers for men ages 60 and over. I'll bet James has you in better shape than those guys! 😊
Thanks for pointing out that we now carry two sets of DNA in our bodies. I never thought of that.
Scott, you are a wise man. I could listen to till the cows come home. 😊
I know you were writing your book. I read the excerpt that you shared when you posted your story. Have you completed the book, or are you still working on it? I would love to read it.
Take care.
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2 ReactionsGood morning Scott. Your commentary continues to amaze me. You so clearly articulate what I think so many of us transplant patients understand - but can’t quite put into words. For me, the sudden onset of liver failure changed my life in immeasurable ways. One of the most difficult challenges for me was the loss of control over my life. I think most of us truly believe that we are in control of our destinies - until the universe steps in - and proves to us that we are really not in control. We have to learn to play the cards we are dealt - and adjust our expectations and our lives accordingly. I was close to death several times in my journey, waited nearly 2 years for transplant, received 7 calls for possible transplant - but by the grace of God, finally received a new liver that saved my life in Feb 2022. My donor is known as my Angel around my home. I don’t know anything about them, but thank them and their family every day for the ultimate gift that allowed me to reclaim my life. Quite honestly, I never would have believed that I would ever have been able to resume an active life. I expected to be an invalid - a sickly old man of 62 for the rest of my days. But yet here I am - life resumed to the fullest. The human body is an amazing machine. I exercise every day, play pickleball and even was able to get a new job - after being “retired” from my longtime career - due to my extended disability. Finding a new job was part of me trying to seize back control of my life - and I have succeeded at that. But I now truly understand that control of our lives is ephemeral. Can’t wait to read your book!
Gerry P
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3 ReactionsThank you for the kind words. The book went on hiatus for quite some time as it started to feel self-centered and that is something I try to avoid though I am not always good at accomplishing that goal. However, I am back writing and would say it is about 50% done with another 25% scattered throughout notes and musings. My motivation to start again came from sharing pieces with a dear friend who kept asking for more. She also helped me in adjusting some content away from self-reference. For example, there is a chapter/section on music in my recovery. I had previously ended with my play list. She suggested I end with a challenge for the reader to develop their play list.
Good luck with your angel. Each of us have differing challenges based on our specific transplanted organ. I understand "you liver people" have issues with itching. I hope that does not trouble you too much.
As for control, I have come to learn that the only thing I do control is my mind. I choose what to think no matter what crosses my path. It is a constant struggle but one worth the effort.
Finally I am glad you are using your body and not acting as a sickly old man. It is fun to move and use this wonderful tool, right? I remember during my evaluation to make "the list" the psychiatrist asked me what I want from a transplant. I told her I wanted to live and not simply exist.
Live long and prosper.
Best always,
s!
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