HoLEP Log: What did you experience pre and post-op?
What did you experience, pre and post - op?
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What did you experience, pre and post - op?
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Orgasms not organs
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Your journal of recovering is incredibly useful - thanks for continuing it. I'm about a month behind you. At this point, I have some minor, fading issues with peeing. Mostly some dull pain toward the end of each time I relieve my bladder, and something related to what you've mentioned, in that if I pee when I'm not full up, it tends to be relatively uncomfortable. Also I've had to push at the end to fully clear everything out, which is unusual for me, and I am taking an extra 10-20 seconds to really make sure it's done. But my flow is 5 stars and I consider the surgery a success.
The two post-op issues I wish I'd known more about are sexual and exercise-based. I too feel like my orgasms are at 98%, and I also sometimes think I've ejaculated when I haven't. But there's something right at the end that's missing. I genuinely don't care if semen comes out (my wife is actually thrilled by this development) but it's like I'm missing the last chord in a blues riff or something. Also after orgasm my erection immediately vanishes, which is new for me.
The surveys I read before the operation are way too vague on the subject of sexual satisfaction - they seem to lump in "ejaculation" with "pleasure," rather than explaining what exactly men are dissatisfied about and why that goes away with time. Maybe we'll all get that last 2% back?
The other thing is exercise. I'm not massively athletic, but I do go to the gym four times as week and run three times a week. After surgery, my strength, endurance and focus plummetted. This might have to do with anesthesia, but it's been 2 months now and I'm just finally starting to be able to run more than a mile at a time. Slowly. My strength in the gym is still down 30-40%, and I can't really do many sets. I know that will come back, but it's a little depressing.
Thanks again for your notes.
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3 ReactionsI had the same issues with my workouts. Struggled a lot at first. I'm finally back to my pre-op strength levels,
It did take awhile, around the 10 week post-op point.
It feels, so good doing cardio without a full bladder!
How long after HoLEP does the urine run clear? The frank blood has diminished, a tad of intermittent at the beginning, light rust color, short duration, but the urine is cloudy. I don't have a fever, no burning, or other symptom of infection other than cloudy. I drink at least three liters of water daily. My surgery was on the 2 of May. It is now about 23 days after surgery.
For me it was 7 weeks. I actually had a couple of spots about 9 weeks out as well. But it only happened once. You should be getting close. The only reason why I bled so long is that I am on blood thinners for my heart. So I tend to bleed easier and longer than most people. A friend of mine that had the same procedure said that he had no signs of bleeding around 5 weeks post op. Keep drinking the water. He also said around 4 weeks he had a bad burning sensation like he had a urinary tract infection, but it wasn't. It was just the normal healing process. As long as you're going to the bathroom you should be okay.
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2 ReactionsHey man, thanks a bunch. I pee like a donkey, so I'm good on that. Blood thinners makes sense. I'm not on them, but they gave me a subcutaneous jab of heparin post op.
I've been sedentary a lot since I first had a Foley placed, I try to walk, keep salt down and watch the sugar. I may ask for an A1c glucose and serum insulin test if this keeps up. It's probably the slough of cells; it's gonna take 1 hot minute . . .
Much appreciated!
That's interesting, why did they give you heparin? I was moving around quite a bit by 23 days. You will find the more you move around the more you will bleed. It's just a matter of breaking up the scar tissue and breaking loose scabs. So don't be surprised if you go beyond 5 weeks.
I'm 24 days post op and feel very lethargic, sometimes my hands have a slight tremble, my strength is down. I also find myself in a fog, staring out the window or at the wall. I'm 61 years old. Insomnia doesn't help matters, but this was happening before surgery, I attribute it to anxiety. I need to have a blood test for kidney function, glucose and insulin levels. I'm better after a cup of coffee, but after a walk I tire easily. I used to work out in the gym before surgery, 3 to 4 times a week. It's too early to lift weight so I'll do walking. I'm wondering if it's a metabolic kidney issue that's causing all of this, or the residue of Augmentin antibiotics I too before, and after surgery- for 8 days after. This doesn't help the kidneys much.
When I asked the nurse, she said it was to prevent clotting. This seemed odd to me, because I was under the impression that I was supposed to coagulate. My urine had been running light red by morning the next day while irrigating through the 3-way Foley. She didn't give me any other explanation. I was reluctant, but allowed her to give the one-time dose anyway. Maybe it was part of their protocol? I'll have to ask the surgeon in June why they did this. I passed covid twice without the jab. Or, it could be my kidneys. One thing I remember the anesthesiologist assistant commenting about before surgery regarding my concern about transfusion was that my hemoglobin count was high, sufficient to cover me without transfusion. I have read papers about impaired kidney function and oxygen, if there isn't enough blood oxygen exchange, the kidneys will compensate by making more red blood cells. I didn't discuss this with her, I don't really know if this was the cause.