Please Share 3 Things You Appreciate about Being Old

Posted by Miriam, Volunteer Mentor @mir123, Nov 27, 2025

It's Thanksgiving, so I'm looking at the positive. Some folks don't like the word "old" but I don't mind it. You can substitute "aging" if you prefer! I'm thrilled to be 71 and looking at 72. Due to serious health concerns in my youth I never expected to make it this far. So here goes--and I hope you can join in.

My Three Positive Things

1. I know what my ethics and beliefs are, and I'm no longer worried I might betray them because of outside pressure.
2. I can tell a good story based on life experience.
3. I'm less self critical. My mom told me that if she made a mistake she'd say "you're so clumsy" to herself. When she turned 80 she changed and told herself "you're doing great!"

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msmcecelia | @msmcecelia | Dec 25, 2025

Grandkiddos visits.
Less pressure to be as active or joining up. Time to read instead.
Plan for aging in place.

linda88 | @linda88 | Dec 25, 2025

1) the body has caused me to slow down enough to listen to it better;
2) I am more appreciative and protective of “me” time; and
3) I get to take up new creative endeavors!

ginger123 | @ginger123 | Dec 25, 2025

As I sip my Christmas morning coffee, I look around at my home and really appreciate what I’ve earned. Hard work in my younger years has provided me comfort and peace now. I’m fortunate to be relatively healthy, and I’m blessed with close friends nearby. Age has given me acceptance and the ability to say no to things without guilt. I’m true to myself now, and don’t worry about what people think. Bottom line….. contentment.

kahki | @kahki | Dec 25, 2025

I have just been reminded to look around my own home and feel grateful to just be here!

adr | @adr | Dec 25, 2025

In reply to @nycmusic "@adr typos beat auto-correct, which has gotten quite weird !" + (show)

@nycmusic

Yes, very funny. I agree.

sdscotti | @sdscotti | Dec 26, 2025

Well, I am not so sure about old, but retired or semi-retired has benefits. As long as I have adequate food, shelter, clothing, a few friends, and a peaceful place to live, I cannot complain too much.