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Online sex chat addiction: How can I stay quit?

Posted by elih12345 @elih12345, Jan 19 6:38am

Ive been heavily to certain disgusting websites over past few years camsex I feel i lot of guilt from it and it has completely destroyed my self-esteem I've been able to quit for a months at a time but i always circle back to it i need some advice moving further

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jonson4 | @jonson4 | 3 days ago
In reply to @melissa123 "I am sorry for what you went through. I am glad you are doing better. I'm..." + (show)
@melissa123

I am sorry for what you went through. I am glad you are doing better. I'm not sure he has an addiction to porn or if it was just tempting to click on the facebook pictures of these half dressed women. And of course they write to you because they want to flirt with you because ultimately they want your money. This is all I know. I saw his messenger and he was talking to half dressed women and I haven't seen anything since. Before we were married he was texting with an ex. It kind of sucks. Otherwise he is a great husband. No complains anywhere else. Thoughtful caring family man. So I try to forgive but keep it in the back of my mind.

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Hello! Forgive me for being frank. “Otherwise he’s a great husband “. Total trust must be proven. You try to forgive……, you appear to be kind and forgiving - I don’t want that taken for granted, by your husband while he manipulates and deceives you. Did the texting with the ex continue, has that been eliminated?
Your kindness is his blessing - has/does he earn it?
Thank you for your openness and honesty.

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melissa123 | @melissa123 | 3 days ago

The ex texting was years ago before we were married. I forgave him. He has no kids with her and she moved states away. I haven't heard anyone we know hearing from her. Talking to these half dressed fake women from FB coffee group happened a couple of years ago. He was having some sexual issues because he was put on some medication that made it difficult to get an erection. I didn't want to embarrass him by talking about it. I found out when I looked at his phone. Since then we went to counseling a bit. I don't suspect anything but it's so hard to ever trust again. It's easy to be open and honest without anyone else knowing who I am lol.

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