New cancer 2 months after TORS Surgery chemo+radiation
My husband had extensive TORS surgery Jan 25 for HPV + SSC. While hospitalized for aspiration pneumonia catscan showed cancer is back and biopsy revealed it's deeply embedded behind where tonsil was. He has to go to rehab for PT to regain strength before starting concurrent chemo + radiation. How hard is this on a 76 year old who was in good physical health 6 months ago? Looking g for suggestions or advice from experience of others. Thank you.
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Thank you for that explanation. Such great information. Not a single doctor gave me this test. Not even now after tors. I am going to call tomorrow and demand one. If it comes back negative then it will be super telling. It just seems like everything else was pushed to the back burner and not even discussed. Like they went straight for the worst treatment. I understand it won't be pleasant. You said that lightly 😏
It'll be a lot worse for me considering recent stroke, then tors as well. If there's a way to find out if the cancer is totally gone, they should be exercising those options. Thank you
I had a tumor on one tonsil. The tonsil was removed. I received radiation treatments for seven weeks. That was over twenty years ago. I still have the other tonsil. I still have my lymph nodes. These are filters for the bad stuff in your body.
Your doctors chopped away knowing beforehand there was no evidence of spread. I would not consider those doctors to be best when they ignore the basic tenants of their oath, "First, do no harm." Water under the bridge.
I would agree at this point with @jonesja NavDx and hold off on additional treatments. He has been down your road. Good healing.
Hi,
I am 4 weeks post TORS and double neck dissection with primary unknown as well. My drs are fantastic and said that my body must have healed itself. I had two options. 5 weeks of radiation (95% survival)or come back in 3 months to monitor (85%) I opted for option 2.
To back track…it took me a year and a half to find my SCC sitting in a lymph node on my carotid artery. All the drs Told me I was having a nervous breakdown- until the lump appeared on my neck.
I live in Memphis and the drs here couldn’t tell me where the primary cancer was after removing the tumor and wanted me to do 7 weeks radiation and chemo….that is when I reached out to Mayo for a second opinion.
I got screwed out of my long term disability because my NP didn’t put all of my health issues down. My boss insisted on FMLA but drs kept passing the buck….if somebody would have just listened to me….my fmla ended November 1 and the lump appeared in December.
I don’t regret one minute of making the decision to go to Mayo AZ. And if you can do it….do it!
I got more answers on my first visit than I did in 3 months of visits in my own hometown.
I pray for your peace and to let you know you are not alone. This journey is hard.
Hi @wfili and welcome. Your story is not unusual. Your situation with work, long term disability and FMLA choices are also sadly common with many of us in this cancer battle. It is unfortunate that there are times in life that we basically have to bet the farm in hope of a second chance at life. We all came into the world naked and we can certainly leave naked. Everything in between is a challenge and lifelong project. I am sorry for your setbacks however now you have a chance again to rebuild.
Your original doctors not believing you is all too common. We know when something isn’t right but often the doctors can’t take the time to figure it out. My favorite saying at that point is “They will figure it out at the autopsy.”
Now of course you are on the other side of this journey which means for the next twenty or so years every little oddity, every pain that lingers, every head cold you can’t easily shake will convince you the cancer has returned. It hasn’t but you will struggle with that thought.
How is your overall recovery coming along?
Hello,
I have unknown primary too. I had 1 lymph node 2.2 cm removed in June and they wanted to do full radiaiton on my whole orophranyx and nodes on both sides. I got a second opinion and they have me signed up for TORS surgery and modified neck dissection. They did tell me they were going to scrape the base of tongue to biopsy. Is that the same thing they did to you? How are you doing now?
Hello Friend-
That is the same thing. Exactly!
My voice is coming back a little everyday and besides my shoulders trying to recover from it…I feel good. Not great yet but good. My surgery lasted 6 hours…so that in itself is a reason why you don’t bounce back quickly.
Take the meds - eat the ice cream. And know that we can do this! Sending good vibes your way!
You are so on point! It feels like PTSD. It is so weird. I was so happy when they said they didn’t find the primary and that my body “healed itself” but now I have gone down the rabbit hole to find that this is not exactly a good thing.
But I do know that I can’t change what the Lord has planned for me, so I am going to live my life with a good attitude and faith.
And this platform has been so helpful. Thank you for mentoring!
Thanks for the reply. I’m so scared. I keep second guessing my treatment plan but decided this is the best option to try to find primary and maybe have targeted radiation. Are you able to lift your arms to your head? How is your speech?
I was scared too but I promise that you will get through it.
My shoulders are getting better everyday. My speech is fine just horse but voice is coming back as well. Do the surgery before committing to the radiation and chemo. I go back to Mayo Nov 3 for pet and follow up.
wifili, lilyann here,
wish the best on your pet scan on the 3rd of nov. i go on the 4th of nov. i think i have about had it with the pet scans as each and everyone of them said "different" things........like one said i had cardiomegaly, so had to do an echo. several said i had a "normal" heart. now i am suppose to have a small hiatal hernia. however, the last radiologist didn't say anything about it on the last one. this last time did show an increase in size but as the n/p said......not by much. however, i'm not too sure about her being i asked her what they seen in the brain and she said she wasn't aware that i had an MRI, i didn't but the tec told me they were going to do the brain and it did say: limited evaluation to the brain due to intense physiologic uptake in the brain. i see no numbers after this remark and from what i could gather from dr. google, that's a good sign. lol. i'm oh so tired of the needles and blood draws. more to the story but running out of space. i'm not even suppose to be here. i have left it in god's hands, its all in his plan. god help all of us.