My penis has dry skin and I'm scared (14)

I masturbated with handsoap (Dawn) as a lubricant I looked at my penis just now and it had like dry skin and was stiff around the tip my foreskin.

Hello @dannycarson1, I know it can be uncomfortable talking to your dad on the topic and I'm sure I would be nervous if I was your age. Here is some information that I hope relieves some of your concern and offers some home remedies.

"Dry skin on the penis is not typically a sign of a serious condition. Common causes are allergies to chemicals in soap or detergent, too much friction, psoriasis, or eczema. If a person experiences dry skin on the penis and does not know the cause, they should see their doctor."
--- Dry skin on the penis: Causes and home remedies: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325286.

One home remedy mentioned is coconut oil - "Coconut oil offers a natural way to reduce skin dryness all over the body, including the penis. People can also use it as a massage oil or natural lubricant. Results of a 2014 study Trusted Source suggest that applying coconut oil may be a more effective atopic dermatitis treatment than mineral oil.".

Your dad might surprise you if you give him a chance. Do you have any coconut oil available to try?

I'll try Coconut Oil!

Danny
You likely have irritant dermatitis from soap and friction.
Use hydrocortisone cream or ointment several times
a day for a few days. It is available generic over the
counter at your drug store for about 6 dollars or less.
Use only mild soap like Dove in the shower.
You should get better in a few days. There is a nuisance
skin condition called seb derm that could be going on
if the dry scaly appearance continues.
Best lubricants that are safe and nonirritant are mineral
oil, Vaseline, KY belly, or aquaphor.
Don’t be embarrassed to see a dermatologist. They are available in both varieties male or female.

KY jelly that is!

Treat the irritated skin - I'd first try coconut oil.
Don't ever masturbate with soap.
Coconut oil is just dandy for lube as well (either solo or with a partner, presuming there isn't a condom involved)
As a general suggestion, make sure you don't develop a habit of gripping too tightly.