My blood pressure med is bad for me

I have a 4.6 dilated assending aorta, and I read that the verapamil I've been on for years is not good for it. However, I've been on several that don't work, linsopril being the worst, losartan, valsartan, amlodipine.. . All cause problems. Lord knows what I can use to keep my pressure down without tearing up my aorta.