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Mom's death
Watching my moms body die while she was on a ventilator was heartbreaking. She had moved back home with me but we only got 1 week before she ended in hospital but the most stressful part was my brother. He made everything a bigger problem. From taking her off ventilator to money. He made such a fuss bout a 3,000$ life insurance policy. I couldn't even mourn my mother's death in peace. He never came too see her cuz he didn't want to see her that way but the rest of the family did. He never said " how you doing or thank you". He was so selfish thru all of this. Thank God I had other family to lean on!
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My thoughts are with you. I am sorry for your brothers behaviour, totally inappropriate. The loss of your mom is hard and the grief journey ahead will be difficult. I ptay you will find comfort from the Holy Spirirt to lessen the pain, and to blanket you in peace and calm
Thru prayer I have found peace cuz now,my brothers want her ashes divided between the 3 of us but I feel her ashes should stay together and be buried so I've ordered a memorial plaque and I have a shelf just for her and I'll let my brothers have all her ashes. This gives me peace and allows me to remove myself from there drama.
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2 ReactionsVery sorry your mom has passed. Can’t imagine how you must feel. Wonderful that you have some family members who grieve with you hopefully comforting one another.
Sad that your brother is having a difficult time processing his grief. Prayers for you and all who grieve your mom.
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