How to handle when spouse has cancer, is in pain and isn’t active?

You are handling your difficult situation so well. So many cancers and treatments. I wish you continued success in this endeavor.

I agree the little things matter. I'm the one with cancer but feel better for all my little accomplishments (laundry, vacuuming, sometimes just a shower). I wish you both the best. You're both struggling and will be stronger when all is done. It's a new world and we're all trying to get through it as best we can. I love the walking idea. Always relaxes me and I enjoy hearing the nature sounds. Best wishes🦋

I know exactly what you mean. Baking bread, weeding the garden, washing the dishes, walking to the grocery store — they all feel like victories.

I often use the ostrich stress relief method myself. I’m good at closing a door in my brain and just not thinking about it. My friends are jealous that I can just stick my head in the ground and pretend all is well. Praying for your husband and you! Take care of you!!

Talk to your doctor about pain management!
Stay strong and don’t sicken yourself with worry and fatigue.

MOJO

@argues Checking in to see how you're doing. Is your husband handling his pain and day to day activities any better? And what about you -- did any of these suggestions help?

I could be in the same situation as you soon. I'm guessing I will try to stay positive and let my husband rest all he needs. I'll try to take care of everything around the house so that he doesn't have to worth about these things. It's a very scary situation and also easy to get depressed but please try to keep a positive attitude, it may rub off on your spouse. Sending a heartfelt hug 🫂