Holidays: Celebration or Challenge for Transplant Families

@blbird33 This morning I skipped out to a local craft show, held at the grange. They were very accommodating with me and my cane. However, I was literally the only one there wearing a mask. Speaking to one gentleman, he reminded me that I need to take care of myself, and if I am alone in the crowd wearing a mask, there is nothing wrong with that. Bless his heart!

Having to say "no" to those who would grace our houses without wearing a mask, who fuss at the thought we insist on it, well, it is in our best interest, isn't it? No one will do it for us. As my dad would say, "Take a stand, even if you stand alone."
Ginger

Thank you for all of your tips for the holidays. This is my first post transplant and I find it hard to say NO, or please wear a mask, or wash your hands and use sanitizer. And this is my job now to set limits even with my small grandson who is very active at 1 1/2 yo. I am still in recovery. And thank you for the ideas for treating a cold if I get one. I also asked my doc about the Evusheld, if I need it. I find my transplant center does not give much info about staying safe. I find strength from you all, thanks. BB

Last year I had just had my liver transplant and I was still recuperating at my mom’s. I was very very careful and kept everything small. This year I’m still being careful but not isolating very much. These days I do most everything I want to do as long as I can mask the entire time. I asked the minister of my church- a big downtown church- if we could have a mask mandate at church Christmas Eve and she readily said yes. Given that flu and RSV are swirling around in spades where I live it makes sense to mask in big crowds and not be the only one masking. I have started hugging people again, but only if we’re both masked!

My transplant was over 4 years ago. We do pretty much the same things every year. Christmas Eve is spent at our son’s beautiful home and Christmas morning some of the family comes over for a Belgian waffle breakfast. The first two years after transplant I got a nasty cold around that time of the year. That’s pretty much the only times I’ve been sick since the transplant and I’m very grateful. This year, once again the hospitals are filling up with patients, sick with RSV, Covid or the flu. That’s pretty scary. Some of my family has had RSV. They are very careful about not coming near when they are sick. We’re staying home pretty much , ordering groceries and Christmas presents. I hope everyone stays well and has happy holidays.

Every year my brother has a big gathering for Christmas and makes the seven fishes feast. I have never gone, because of various reasons but mainly because I am usually out of country. This year I won't be going because I don't know everyone's vaccination status or if they will be sick (some don't know to stay home). I also won't be going to my church's Christmas party or service in person, but I will go on zoom for the church's service (they do hybrid service). However, I will make a special meal for my husband, son and myself. I am going to try to make coquito (non-alcoholic version) this year for something special for us. Then if our friends are home, we will go over to their house. Maybe my son and I will watch a movie. For New Year's Eve, we will do pretty much the same thing.

BB, I am happy for you to be preparing to celebrate the holidays in a safe and sensible way that will work for you and your loved ones! I can imagine that you will probably shed some happy tears, because I remember, my holiday after my own transplant. My transplant was in 2009 when I had a liver and kidney transplant at Mayo Rochester. My advice, should you want it, is to use common sense and be prepared to say "no" when you feel uncertain of the safety about going to any event. It does take effort and with time and practice, will become a natural instinct.

In response to your question about a cold, I have learned to listen to my body, and when I feel a cold coming on, I begin to take preventive actions. For me that includes getting extra rest, staying hydrated, and reducing unnecessary activities/obligations. I also monitor my temperature and have seek medical advice if it goes above 101.
Over the counter medicines that are safe (per my transplant notes) include Tylenol, Sudafed, Robitussin, and Benadryl. Never go above the daily recommendations.

Here is a discussion with members sharing their experiences.
Living Life after your Transplant
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/living-life-after-your-transplant/
Happy Holidays!

I am in week 7 post transplant and am super careful with masking around others I do not know, and avoiding crowds at the holidays. I am not yet driving either. I order presents from Amazon. Sounds like you are a long time past transplant? It is a difficult holiday as my family gets sick at times and I can not be around them at all, like during Thanksgiving. I hope this will be different at Christmas, but I will see. I will be safe no matter what, even if I just do Facetime with them. I guess eventually when I do go out, I will stick to the afternoons when there are no crowds and mask. Thanks for the tips. I do need to ask: what do you do if you do catch a cold? Can you take over the counter meds? I will clear it with my transplant coordinator too. Be safe and healthy, BB

I am ready to get in the Holiday Spirit!!
Yesterday afternoon my husband and I had to make a trip to a Barnes and Noble to do some 'in person' shopping. It felt good to do the Pick up/Put down old fashioned shopping! We went mid afternoon, and there were very few people in the store. I was armed with my hand cleaner and had a mask handy if I got near anyone. Shopping was successful and we came away with some gems for Christmas gifting!
Next we went for a nice dinner, which we enjoyed with one of our sons. Did you know that at 4:15 in the afternoon that restaurants are practically empty?
After a 45 minute drive home, and a delightful evening and holiday planning for family gathering, I'm ready to get ready!

Is anybody else making holiday plans? How will you spend your holidays?

Amen, yes he does. Thank you so much. Stay warm sounds like a lovely time u have planned.😊💚

@rosemarya & @myfablife thank you for the Transplantversary greetings. Initially we planned to go out to eat and to a movie to celebrate. We live in the suburbs of MPLS, Mn. Yesterday we had a snowstorm that lasted all day. A snow emergency was declared in the Twin Cities metro area. So today we will bundle up, break out the shovels and snowblower. Later we’ll warm up with soup and hot turkey/ gravy sandwiches. My husband set up the artificial tree yesterday. Tonight there are Christmas specials on TV and we’ll decorate that tree. @myfablife my prayers are being lifted up for you that this rejection scare will soon be resolved. God is good and does all things well in His best timing.