High Lymphocytes, Low neutrophils and swollen lymph nodes for a year

I am just looking for guidance. This started about a year ago when I noticed a small bump behind my right ear. I went to the dermatologist thinking it was a skin thing and they said it seems like a lymph node no big deal. Throughout the lats year I began to develop recurring ear infections on that side but the doctor would always say it looks fine and is not infected. That side of my sinuses also has a hard time draining and usually feels clogged. I finally went to an ENT a couple months ago who stuck a camera and said everything is good but he can feel a few lymph nodes in my neck and clavicle area. Then during my routine checkup my GP noticed my lymphocytes were high and through asking other questions referred me to an oncologist. This conclusion came because I often am sick/have fevers, drenching night sweats on and off that look like i poured a bucked of water on my bed and weird skin issues rashes. My GP ordered further blood and i was negative for all autoimmune and my ANA, negative lyme, negative RA, negative sjorgens etc, I had positive very high levels of PAST ebv infection (nothing recent) and my ESR and CRP were very elevated but I know those are nonspecific markers. I went to the oncologist and they did a CT scan and my neck and clavicle armpit area had lymph nodes that were above normal range and bigger than 1CM short axis, I also had small nodule/mass in my nasal cavity and lymph nodes in my glands. They also did flow Cyomtry test which again was normal with 60% of my blood being lymphcytes, 6% being monocytes, 33% granulocytes and 1% CD45 Dim population gate. My Kappa Lambda is 1.7. Oncologist wasn't concerned and told me that whatever is going on isn't something to do with him and to essentially go elsewhere, no other suggestions where. My rashes and night sweats are only getting worse and my CBC has me bordering on anemic. I bruise incredibly easily and I am getting small skin lesions. Sometimes I am so itchy and just from itching for a few seconds I develop widespread petachie. I have lost about 15 pounds nothing major and I wasn't trying persay but I do take care of myself. Lastly my fatigue is off the charts. I get 8 hours of sleep per night and I still cannot get up. I ran a marathon a year ago and now I can barely run more than 3 miles. For reference I am a 25 Female who is 5'8 and 159 pounds (was 174). I understand this is not a malignant process but is this normal? I am starting to feel insane because in my bones I know something is wrong and I feel very dismissed, but also maybe I am overreacting.