Hello from a difficult patient in London
Hi all,
Been lurking for a while, thought it was time to introduce myself.
Diagnosed in 2022 with Gleason 3+4. Radical prostatectomy recommended - within 6 weeks.
I asked questions. A lot of questions — and the more I dug into the research, the less convinced I became that rushing to treatment was the right call for me.
I chose active surveillance. Changed my diet significantly, started a structured exercise regime, and spent hundreds of hours reading the published evidence on what actually moves the needle for men in my position.
Four years on, no progression. Still on Active Surveillance. Still asking questions.
Along the way I built a free online resource that pulls together and cites the latest research on supplements, exercise and lifestyle interventions by evidence quality — because I got tired of trying to internet anecdotes from actual peer-reviewed evidence. Happy to share if useful.
Paul
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@dinu this is amazing thank you! I'd love to join but unfortunately have a dinner engagement on the 15th. Please let me know when the next one comes up and in the meantime I'll check out these videos.
Thank you so much,
Paul S
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3 ReactionsThank you smooth! I can view it now. Paul you have a book as well? Tell me more. I thought my anti inflammatory diet was excellent. Regular exercise routine. Then diagnosed with 4+3 and RALP in January. Open to making modifications in diet and exercise. Need help.
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No worries. We are meeting every third Wednesday of the month at the same time!
Stay strong and be positive.
Dinu
@paulsweeney
I know what you mean regarding feeling alone, deep in research and being misunderstood regarding intervention based active surveillance.
As of 2020, ~60% of those diagnosed with low risk PCa (Gleason 3+3) opted for AS, whereas it drops to 13.5% for those diagnosed with favorable intermediate risk (Gleason 3+4) and 3.1% for those diagnosed with unfavorable intermediate risk (Gleason 4+3).
These figures have significantly increased since 2010 and are most likely even higher in 2026 (see https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2822716)
This support group has wonderful folks over the entire spectrum of PCa severity and aggressiveness. Their questions, decisions, experience and personal outcomes shape their comments. While I think the majority in this group have decided on some type of active treatment, I appreciate their experiences and comments.
The one thing we can all agree upon is that a man needs to become his own best advocate and that each decision will look quite different, primarily driven by one's risk tolerance.
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Thanks for replying. That sounds great! All the best to you!
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1 Reaction@handera absolutely! You'll see from the book that our thinking is very aligned on this point.
Paul
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