Heart Event and So Confused...Left w/no answers and needing to vent I

Posted by sheri728 @sheri728, Apr 29, 2023

Hi. I am 51. Recently I experienced something really strange. My neighbors decided they wanted to start smoking...which my landlord had said this was a nonsmoking building...until now(he denies ever saying it) but one night I endured so much smoke..which I am assuming is coming through my vents...but I was on my couch like in shock. I didn't even get up and move...it was weird. My chest and right arm had some pain...then my left arm...but still I didn't react. The next day(and amongst continued fumes) I called to have family take me to the hospital. The urgent care doc asked a series of questions..did tests, xray, and ecg.. he sends me home saying all tests were fine. This was a Thursday. Saturday I get an email saying new test results. There is a result from ecg saying that there had been evidence of an infarction having happened.. ok. So I message my primary with results and he immediately says he's sending a referral I need to see a cardiologist asap. So that scared me. Thankfully I talked my way in to a quick appt.... ok so the cardiologist was kind. Pleasant. But the first thing he said to me was...did they admit you...I said no. He said did they do a scan? I said no..just an xray.....He was visibly confused and a bit upset not understanding why from the records in epic...they did not keep me. Ok. So he gave me an egg that day...turns out it wasn't normal either. I got those results later that day...but since then I have had a stress test that said something about moderate reversible fillable defect atrium wall ..(dont quote me on that word spelling) that was like 2 days ago...but a month ago I had an echo which said results were limited..(sad) anyway fast forward..today like most other days I feel afraid to do anything for dear of a heart attack. I go in and out of depression and I have no clue about what I should or should not be doing...nobody has called me from either test...just like when my creatine or albumin numbers among others be out of range...it's as if doctors have their own range and the lab's range is no cause for alarm. But perhaps I am just venting. I said to myself I am going to mayo clinic connect and write my feelings on this...I don't post often but it's a great site. Oh and then I can't sleep because I am afraid to. Then I sleep all day like a vampire. It's just weird. I am angry at everyone right now..especially my neighbors who continue to smoke God knows what...and my landlord for lying in my face that he never said this was a non smoking building...and my family for not coming and making a fight out of this...which I think is stupid..but would make me feel so much better and so less stressed. My life went from sunshine to all day laying around in a month's time. Like I said I am probably just venting...but I have no clue what to do except watch what I eat...because exercise is out the question..I have no zest for it..and I don't know if I should even exert myself. Yes. I am angry, lost, and confused. And still nobody has even told me exactly what went on with me...heart attack..stroke..mini stroke..mini heart attack...or nothing at all. I am so tired of feeling like a fish out of water. I just want them to give me answers so that I can adjust my life..and begin to live again.

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sher,

It sounds like you are venting - and, it is hard to understand. Especially without paragraphs.

Please sit down, try and lower your anxiety, and take your recent events apart like a scientist, engineer, accountant or doctor would

Break the scenario into pieces, and assess where the issues are - put the material together in sections and resend to this forum.

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It sounds like you have seen A LOT OF DOCTORS, but none of them have actually sat down with you and discussed your condition. You need to make an appointment with your Cardiologist and tell him exactly what you have said here. YOU HAVE SOME SERIOUS CONCERNS. SHOULD YOU BE ON MEDICATION, WHAT ARE YOUR EXERCISE LIMITS, ETC. Do this before having any further testing, but do it as soon as possible. You may be perfectly find, but the Anxiety you are suffering cannot be good for you. Be sure to bring any lab, xray reports, and electrocardiogram reports you have. Good luck
Gina5009

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Sheri728,

Abnormal cardiac test results can be very upsetting and confusing. I had similar feelings when my abnormal cardiac test results were reported out, and I have a medical background.

The nurses, medical assistants, and physician assistants who work with my doctors have been very helpful by providing me with educational materials, and answering focused questions I send through Epic messaging. It sounds like you do need an appointment to help you better understand your diagnosis, and treatment options. I hope you can get this scheduled soon.

Regarding smoke issues, our family uses Holmes HEPA room size air purifiers because we have issues with asthma and a vaping teen who tries to sneak and vape in the house. The air purifier has helped clear the smoke. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

If your anxiety continues, you may want to purchase some home monitoring equipment - scale, blood pressure, oximeter, ecg, and a smart watch that could record all this information. Often times, when I feel poorly poorly - chest pain, palpitations, dizzy, short of breath- I would check my vital signs, see that I was fine, and then take a short nap, or relax and listen to calming music. Learning to live with heart issues takes time. My issues are chronic and there is no cure, so I continue to work on lifestyle changes for the past 3-1/2 years.

Keep us posted on how you are doing. I hope you feel better soon and have answers to your questions. Write them down.

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You need a good cardiologist! Did they give you a Coronary CT angiogram to see if you have any blockages? If not don't be fearful of getting one its simple and if you do have a blockage its also simple to clear out usually a pin hole in the wrist to enter with camera worse case through groin area which is also not a big deal most times at your age wrist works fine.

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@mayoconnectuser1

sher,

It sounds like you are venting - and, it is hard to understand. Especially without paragraphs.

Please sit down, try and lower your anxiety, and take your recent events apart like a scientist, engineer, accountant or doctor would

Break the scenario into pieces, and assess where the issues are - put the material together in sections and resend to this forum.

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I REALLY think your response comes across very rude and very selfish. I personally can totally relate to Sher's post. This post is genuinely written from a person who is extremely fearful and very confused as to what needs to be done.
(Shame on you)
Your post would totally suppress any desire to share my journey and my feelings if it were me seeking encouragement.

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@lizzieann

I REALLY think your response comes across very rude and very selfish. I personally can totally relate to Sher's post. This post is genuinely written from a person who is extremely fearful and very confused as to what needs to be done.
(Shame on you)
Your post would totally suppress any desire to share my journey and my feelings if it were me seeking encouragement.

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I disagree.

Everyone has a limit the amount of effort they can put into any topic, and sheri's post exceeded mine. That is not selfishness - it is human reality.

My advice to her was just that - advice. It was not meant to be rude, but to urge her to change her approach in order to get more focused assistance.

sheri has not yet responded to any of the replies to her post. She could have spent five minutes organizing her thoughts and situation summary, but ... did not.

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@mayoconnectuser1. Here I am...about a month later and blessed. I am a whole lot better. I am a very intelligent person, however I was experiencing all kinds of emotions when I wrote my initial post. I want to thank @lizzieann for her comment because she was spot on. Your response was rude and insensitive...and the very reason I stopped coming to this site...hence the lack of response from me- as you mentioned. Hope you are well and doing pushups@mayoconnectuser1...but do better. 🫡

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@sheri728

@mayoconnectuser1. Here I am...about a month later and blessed. I am a whole lot better. I am a very intelligent person, however I was experiencing all kinds of emotions when I wrote my initial post. I want to thank @lizzieann for her comment because she was spot on. Your response was rude and insensitive...and the very reason I stopped coming to this site...hence the lack of response from me- as you mentioned. Hope you are well and doing pushups@mayoconnectuser1...but do better. 🫡

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Sure, I understand - we all need to emote at times. However, my advice to you was, again, just that, advice. If you want to engage with a group like this one, you must remember they, too, are working on their own medical issues - and, again, have limited time to assist you on yours.

I would normally ask you to share the specifics of your tests, past history, etc - so that we might all be able to provide specific advice on what worked for us.

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@sheri728

@mayoconnectuser1. Here I am...about a month later and blessed. I am a whole lot better. I am a very intelligent person, however I was experiencing all kinds of emotions when I wrote my initial post. I want to thank @lizzieann for her comment because she was spot on. Your response was rude and insensitive...and the very reason I stopped coming to this site...hence the lack of response from me- as you mentioned. Hope you are well and doing pushups@mayoconnectuser1...but do better. 🫡

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I'm so happy you are feeling better. I have and most often feel so overwhelmed like you too . I hope you have many more better days.

Elizabeth

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Hi all,
A gentle reminder of the Community Guidelines (https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/about-connect/tab/community-guidelines/) These Community Guidelines offer 12 short rules of conduct that help keep the Mayo Clinic Connect community safe, supportive, inclusive, and respectful.

I'd like to underline how the importance of respect to our community. See guideline number 2.
2. Remain respectful at all times.
– Exercise tolerance and respect toward other participants whose views may differ from your own.
– Disagreements are fine, but mutual respect is a must.
– Be inclusive. Not everyone shares the same religious or political beliefs. Don't impose your beliefs on others.
– Personal attacks against members or health care providers are not acceptable. Such posts will be removed.

We only have words on a screen without the benefit of tone and body language, thus extra caution must be paid to etiquette and tone. Venting is allowed. In times of stress, we need not worry about worry about spelling, grammer or paragraph breaks. Sometimes this can even be an indicator of a person's stress level.

Be open. Be kind. The primary goal of Mayo Clinic Connect is to share experiences, and to give and get support for our health journies.

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