Does anyone else feel isolated and misunderstood?
Hi, my name is Sandy. I’m very new to this whole thing. I’m 67, I’ve always been very active. Two years ago my husband died suddenly and it has taken me some time to figure out what I was going to do with my life going forward. I decided to put my energy into volunteering and staying busy with things I enjoy. Two months ago I was doing great, long walks, hiking, yoga, playing pickle ball 3 times a week, volunteering at a therapeutic riding stable, driving for the American cancer society. I was finally feeling good about life again and about myself. Then suddenly one day I went to do some simple stretches and noticed that I couldn’t touch my toes without pain in my sit bones. That pain continued to get worse, as I was driving it would hurt so bad that I would have spasms from my butt to my knees. At this time I was still trying to do the things that I enjoyed and I could if I took enough ibuprofen. But I knew something was not right so I went to my primary doctor. She ordered blood work for rheumatoid arthritis and one of the markers came back positive for antiCCP. She wanted me to go to the rheumatologist but I couldn’t get into one for 6 weeks. My pain increased and I started having pain in my hips, groin, shoulder blades, neck and upper arms. It got so bad that one morning I went to the ER I told him that something was really wrong with me. He did X-ray told me I was getting older, prescribed a narcotic, I told him that I had to drive because I lived alone and he said, I guess you’ll have to take an Uber. So then I went to an orthopedic doctor, he also told me that I was just getting older and I was showing some arthritis in my hips. I told him that I knew I was getting older but two weeks ago I was hiking up a mountain and felt fine.
I was finally seen by a rheumatologist and she immediately said, I think you have PMR, I had never heard of it! She started me on 15mg of prednisone, I have only been on it for 3 days and so far it hasn’t helped much but I’m really hoping that it gets better soon, this morning I was in tears and feeling very lonely. Is this going to be what my future looks like? Then I feel bad for thinking that because I know that I’m blessed and it could be worse. Thanks for letting me vent!
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Thank you so much for sharing.
My rheumatologist changed my prednisone to methylprednisolone which is a little more potent than prednisone but she is tapering me off by 5 every week. I started with 5 pills (5mg each) for 7 days then 4 for 7 days and so on. I just finished my first week so I’ll see how it will be going down.
My CRP was 3.1 SED was 24
I’m not really familiar with these. I have my next appointment with the rheumatologist tomorrow 🤞
Trust me once the meds start working you will have your life back.. especially since you are so active..
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