Discussion on the topic of libido

Hi all. I am 76 and my husband is 72. We have been discussing this for awhile now and there is definitely a sense of loss. We are both going to try out testosterone pellets or injections. We are also interested in the other benefits. I happened to be in my physician assistant's office to review the status of my spine and I mentioned my intent. He was gung ho about it.

My libido isn’t what it used to be but I still have satisfying orgasms at age 71. Just not interested in sexual activity as often. Probably once every 10 days or so, but I’m okay with that because I’m enjoying an active retiree lifestyle and have many interests. I’m pretty healthy these days, thank goodness. I eat a mostly Mediterranean, whole foods diet and exercise regularly.

How about acceptance? We live in a sex-crazed society where loss of libido in the elderly is considered an issue. As long as one is healthy and cognitively intact, loss of interest in sex should be viewed as a natural process.

It is an Individual matter. What may be a "natural" process for some may not be for another.

I agree with all the comments. That’s why I like this group. Everyone has their say and no one tries to tell them otherwise. It’s so nice

My libido is zilch, though if my husband wants sex it’s fine when we get going, orgasm and all. I’ve explained to him if he’s waiting for me to initiate we will never have sex - but when we do, coconut oil is a great help to make it comfortable. Much better than any of the pricy lubes out there.