Depressed over the over use of doctors and procedures..approaching 80

Posted by margaretob @margaretob, Sep 20, 2023

I am becoming a medical marvel and a walking target for EVERYTHING OLD. A support group for OLD AGE might be helpful. ANY TAKERS OUT THERE??????

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@margaretob
I'm not trying to be mean, but I think at our "more advanced" age, it is probably not going to get any better overall. I wonder to myself why am I making/keeping this doctor appointment. I have five maintenance drugs and I'm required to go to the doctor twice a year to get these prescriptions. But the dentist? New partials at 86 years old. I don't think so. The eye doctor - of course I always want to go there. The hearing aid? Expensive. Why go when I might not last much longer. Do I want to tell my GP who approves my maintenance drugs about any new aches and pains? I don't know the answer but I remember what my Uncle at age 94 said about his last doctor appoint: "If I take this pill, that might happen and if I take that pill this might happen. So I decided to quit going." He lived well into his 97th year.

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jwoodring120@icloud.com

I don’t know if you have a Cosco near you, but my husband received a hearing aide there and they are much cheaper then anywhere else we have seen. He had them for I think 5 years. One of the cords broke. He thought he would have to get new ones, but they fixed it and revised them for nothing. They also give free hearing tests. I am going to make an appointment because I find myself not understanding what people are saying.

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GOOD FOR YOU...YOU GOT LUCKY.,,,My youngest son drives and lives near a COSCO he likes to shop
there for the fresh vegetables and sales. I dont need a hearing aid yet but if I do I will consider COSTCO.
THANKS ANYWAY AND I WISH YOU GOOD FORTUNE...MargaretO

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I was diagnosed with severe depression with psychosis as well as severe PTSD. Over the years I have worked hard to overcome what I had went through that put me in those 2 stages of my life. I am a 60 yr old female. In June I was assaulted at my job by an employee, as I was the GM of a fast food restaurant, them terminated on June 23, after investigation of the unemployment had no justifiable reason to terminate me. Ever since I was assaulted and went through this transition of termination from my job I loved, I have not been the same. I was put on a choke hold and body slammed about 5ft, hitting my head as well as bruising my hip pretty bad. 2 days later my husband took me to the hospital to be told the only thing wrong with me was I was in shock still. No exrays or anything. As of today, my depression is really bad and PTSD is just as bad. I can't even hold a job due to the depression and PTSD .Any comments on what to do.

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@dbroussard65 sorry to hear about what happened. If you cannot work have you filed for SSI disibility to help support you?

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