Comforting words needed

Posted by ancl123 @ancl123, Oct 4, 2025

Hello! I am a 47 year old mom of 4 kids. When my last daughter was born I went on lexapro due to very upsetting insomnia, anxiety and depression postpartum. I had this issue of insomnia and anxiety before my first was born as well but thankfully I was ok for many years while my kids were little and was on no meds. I was prescribed lexapro after my last daughter born, rough startup but eventually It overall worked for 8 years at 10mg. I would still have flare ups of insomnia which I wasn’t crazy about occasionally still once or twice a month. I slowly weaned to 5 went off and had no issues other then some crying spells. 4 months have gone by. I went off because I didn’t want to be on meds longer and felt overall better and was hoping to loose some stuck weight. I did loose my dad in February and have a very stressful issue with my 16 year old behaviorally so perhaps wasn’t best decision.

2 weeks ago I started to spiral with depression and anxiety I was waking up at 5am often I think brought on by stress. Decided to go back on 5mg lexapro a week ago. My insomnia got much worse after trying to restart 5mg lexapro I wake up at 1:30 and can’t go back to bed. Freaked me out and stopped it. My new symptom is panic attacks which I didn’t have in the past where adrenaline rushes through my
Body multiple times a day. I am now trying tryptophan, theanine, valerian, and cbd and thc gummies is my next option.the last 3 nights I have slept 3- 4 hrs last night I popped a Xanax because woke up after one hr and couldn’t go back to bed. Not sure what
To do. I also am getting to premenopausal age so perhaps some of this factors in. I’m thinking this is a relapse and will need meds for life 😭

Has anyone restarted lexapro or there drugs and had a success story? Scared to go through side effects startup and have to switch meds. Anyone here on meds for life?
Thank you in advance 😊

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@sarawiet I’ve been on lexapro for years and now estrogen and progesterone for a month and a a half and feel like a different person.

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@sarawiet wow, so helpful to hear!! Thanks for sharing! I tried the progesterone and it seemed to affect my mood a little and cause acid reflux some so was nervous to take it without knowing for sure if I need it. Just got some testing though so should know more soon! Appreciate you sharing your experience ❤️🙏 Perimenopause is definitely not talked about enough and impacts so many of us!

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@sarawiet wow, so helpful to hear!! Thanks for sharing! I tried the progesterone and it seemed to affect my mood a little and cause acid reflux some so was nervous to take it without knowing for sure if I need it. Just got some testing though so should know more soon! Appreciate you sharing your experience ❤️🙏 Perimenopause is definitely not talked about enough and impacts so many of us!

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@tawnycgeorge I hope you find some relief🫶🏻

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@sarawiet wow, so helpful to hear!! Thanks for sharing! I tried the progesterone and it seemed to affect my mood a little and cause acid reflux some so was nervous to take it without knowing for sure if I need it. Just got some testing though so should know more soon! Appreciate you sharing your experience ❤️🙏 Perimenopause is definitely not talked about enough and impacts so many of us!

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@tawnycgeorge mod course wish I had the answer! Hoping to come back on here and share what helps. Let me know when you get results and what helps. It is not talked about and I feel like some women suffer more than others. Lucky me

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@tawnycgeorge I hope you find some relief🫶🏻

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@sarawiet thank you so much! Your story and experience are encouraging!

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@tawnycgeorge mod course wish I had the answer! Hoping to come back on here and share what helps. Let me know when you get results and what helps. It is not talked about and I feel like some women suffer more than others. Lucky me

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@ancl123 same! Let’s keep each other posted! I will definitely let you know what helps!

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I am also on lexapro and had a lot of the issue the same things happening to me. I also have Multiple Sclerosis so blamed most of it on that but then realized nope this is different, I was paralyzed by the panic attacks and started to have hot flashes(I thought were MS), brain fog and just pains in places that didn’t make sense. I again blamed it on MS, but waking up at 1, 2 or 4:36 in pure fight or flight, I finally went to a dr who told me I’m in perimenopause and asked if I wanted to do hormone replacement therapy. I said yes and thank you Jesus!!!! It’s not 100% but it’s 100% better than it was! I hope that helps you.

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@sarawiet im glad it’s helping you 🥰

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@sarawiet I’ve been on lexapro for years and now estrogen and progesterone for a month and a a half and feel like a different person.

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@sarawiet That is good to know as I have been thinking about some hormonal support. If you don''t mind me asking, how do you feel different?

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The hot flashes are fewer and farther apart, I can sleep peacefully, my moods have partly to mostly normalized I’d say😉. I can concentrate and form a full sentence without losing myself in mid conversation. Most importantly, I’m not stuck in panic since I started HRT. Like I said it’s definitely not 100% but it’s 100% better than it was. I don’t feel lost anymore. I still have a ton of things going with Multiple Sclerosis but I feel that getting this mostly under control helped out all of my other symptoms so much. I also forgot to say I was first told that I was too young by one doctor for this to be happening(I’m 45)so I found a different Dr(OBGYN)that listened. It really sucks for us but actually getting it under control was life changing for me.

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Were you on the Lexapro already when the panic started suddenly or did going on Lexapro start the panic? That sucks they tell us we’re “too young” to have this happening to us. I had someone tell me that too. 🙄 Glad you’re feeling more like yourself!

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