Anyone ever request a new oncologist mid-treatment?
My oncologist was awesome and without a doubt saved my life by getting me into treatment very early after my diagnosis. In the months following, there has been a breakdown in communication, to the point that I feel completely uncomfortable asking any questions related to my illness or treatment. I have also only seen this person one time (all other communication is through the portal, a few phone calls early on, and now just theough the nurse), at my initial consultation. I have no question as to the quality of medical decision-making and treatment I am receiving. I just dread the idea of interacting with this individual to the point that the mere idea makes me need an anxiety med and I need a proxy to communicate on my behalf. I’m at a pause in my chemo pending surgery and wouldn’t have chemo again for 2-3 months, so it seems like this might be a good point in my treatment to request a change. Everyone I’ve asked (non-cancer patients) thinks I’m crazy to even consider it. Thoughts?
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NIH articles, while excellent, stand cautious and astute and note date of publication. 2018 is 7 years ago! This equates to sample size and results dating back very far from data collation. Put credence in recent publications.
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1 ReactionCT scan results today showed several lymph nodes have been resolved with the treatments. Praise the Lord.
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4 ReactionsHi Daisy,
I’m so glad that you got out of that hospital’s care and into Mayo. I am sending you positive thoughts and healing energy as you fight this awful disease. < 3
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3 ReactionsThank you for your kind words.
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1 Reaction@hort37b460 I’m glad you are going to Mayo. I think you will find the providers and everyone you come into contact with to be helpful and compassionate.
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2 Reactionsjust in the past 5 years there have been target treatments approved for clear cell. Your right that this article is old.
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1 ReactionGreat!
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1 ReactionAgreed. Have you found recent studies that elaborate on or refute the previous paper?
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Thank you for posting your CA125 numbers.
I had heard they could be in the thousands but didn't realize how much they can move after each cycle.
I only wish lab work had been done on me prior to surgery as I have no baseline except the CA125 I received last week before my first cycle.
@mtstack you can still have them. I had the baseline before treatments. I did not have surgery until after I finished the first 6 treatments. That was June 30th. My surgery was Aug 20th and by then my numbers had jumped to 228 so my oncologist wanted me get started asap on this other session of chemo because it turns out I'm HER2+ so I qualify for more targeted chemo. You can still get CA125. They may have done one and just not mentioned it. They did mine and I had to ask what they were. Ask your doctor. It's such a great feeling to watch them drop. Everytime I went for labs before a treatment I'd ask if she was doing a CA125. Lol
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