Sepsis: What's your experience recovering from sepsis?

Hi @pumperknickel, welcome. I'm so sorry to hear about the ongoing issues post sepsis that your daughter and your family are facing. I moved your post to this existing discussion:
- Sepsis: What's your experience recovering from sepsis https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/sepsis/

I did this so you can connect with other members like @507 @psd0972 @tickleme1 @oregongirl @cindylb who have experienced sepsis themselves or their family member.

It must be so hard as a mom to see your daughter in such pain and dealing with unforgiving fatigue, COPD, depression and more.

I'd also like to introduce you to @rwinney who started this discussion that may give you a starting point to possible recovery:
- SMART Goals and Chronic Pain: What are your goals? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/smart-goals-and-chronic-pain-how-smart-are-you/

Hello @pumpernickel

I am so sorry to hear about your daughter. Just short of 3 years ago I had cellulitis of my arm and was quite surprised and disturbed to go into sepsis. It was the worst experience of my life (and I've had breast cancer twice). It is truly a game changer for your body overall. it also sounds like your daughter still has issues that need to be addressed medically. I know, first hand, that's easier said than done due to costs, availability, access - so many things. I can share this.....fight the medical system, despite how difficult and make sure your daughter is getting the medical care and support she needs. Make sure and ask if they can provide financial assistance and get all you can to reduce that stress factor. Also, I didn't have complications in hospital from the sepsis but came close. I was 62 at the time and I have never felt the same since. There are psychological traumas I still feel around illness and the memories of the sepsis. I feel tired, have gained weight, have odd, unexplained symptoms now that doctors simply can't or won't address. I feel 10 years older. I keep plugging along and hope that I can keep my health going and feel better again and I think that's possible but it takes work. Finally, I care for my husband who has a rare form of cancer the doctors don't understand well. I am his advocate and if I weren't here, he'd have died long ago. Please try to find the strength to be your daughter's advocate and look for answers and support. I am sending hugs. This is a tough world to be sick in these days but with patience and care, hopefully she'll be getting better and back to a better quality of life.

@pumpernickel Hello there. My heart goes out to you. I remember how difficult it was for my mother when I began having chronic pain, symptoms, depression, anxiety and was in physical and emotional distress. She so badly wanted to help me and tried in her own way, like you are trying by reaching out on Connect.

As @colleenyoung mentions, I attended Mayo Clinic's Pain Rehab Center where my life was turned around to a new direction of pain management, emotional and behavioral management and chemical reduction/elimination. I was taught tools to succeed after the 3 week rehab program was over and finally had a plan.

My disabilities began at 43 and by 46 I was no longer able to work. It's life altering, but with effort, support, and a plan, things can get better. Quality of life can improve. There has to always be hope for a game plan of strategy and acceptance.

What can I do to help you help your daughter? What is the first piece of her puzzle that you think she needs help with?

Thank you so much. My daughter will not listen to anything i have to say. She suffers from too much drugs yet she is not addicted at all, I as her mother have worried about her since she got Chrohns at 24. You know the old saying you can lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink. She gets mad at me. So i am backing down and keeping my mouth shut. When she needs money she will call
I really appreciate you listening to me
Regards Esther Fox

Oh, Esther, I'm happy to listen and I do know exactly what you mean about the horse and water. That's a tough spot to be in...wanting more for someone than they want for themselves.

Taking medications can definitely alter one's thinking. Let alone the depression, fear, and anxiety that sets in from chronic conditions.

I had experience with too many meds and was addicted to medication, but not an addict. There is a big difference.

Does your daughter take addictive meds like opiates? Is she working with a competent care team?

As an 18 1/2 year post transplant person, I've had my dealings with sepsis quite a few times since being immunosuppressed just makes any bug that comes along that much happier to settle in and try to murder me. Luckily, even if I don't realize that my crazy shaking with chills, fever and semi-delirium, my husband does sorta get the idea all is not well. My last time was 2 years ago when, despite fully vaccinated, I came down with Covid. No room at the inn at the little hospital where we live so we were sent to another 100 miles away. By the time we arrived, I also had a UTI, C-Diff and norovirus. Heavy duty antibiotics (which of course cause "heavy loose duty" if you get my drift) but finally did the trick. Fast forward to last Thursday: oh no...same symptoms! Yup, sepsis and despite vaccination in October, RSV. Hospital, IV antibiotics and bad hospital food. Home now on oral Augmentin antibiotic and on the mend.

My husband was treated with severe ecoli infection. Had to have 2 weeks of infused antibiotics. He felt also frustrated the first days after his released just like your sister because of lethargy, etc. But as his condition improved and his level of anemia was not so down, he regained his strength. Just patience and support!!!

@mariamarconi57, how is your husband doing now? ICU is hard on family members too. How are YOU doing?

I had knee replacement surgery and later that day after surgery I had severe septic shock and also respiratory distress. I was in ICU a week and step down unit for 3 weeks. This happened September 25th and I still feel fatigued and very tired. My strength still isnt good. My energy level isn't good. My dr told me in 3 weeks I'll be back to myself. He is totally wrong.

Thank God I saw this initial post re sepsis after effects. I thought I was just old suddenly. Loss of enhusiasm, poor posture, dragging feet, wanting to watch news but hating it. Inability to get back into the comfort of my old routines, lack of efficient time use, postponing all I could put off. Every time I thought I was back to normal, something would come back to me and then I thought it was over again. Wrong. I will tune into some of the above suggestions and tell all those around me to expect this to last a while, and not get frustrated with me, please! Thanks to all the posters on here, you are very helpful.

One more thing, I have depression which I thought was lack of sunshine this winter-- it's no just that. I still have a recurring UTI which we cannot find a good Rx or remedy for and I fear that it could end up with an ileostomy. Am I dreadfully over reacting? Thanks for input.